Ahh, another young person that god lets have a child that the young person can't take care of and or themself. It's not fair at all. No, your not mean, on the contrary your going the right thing for your grandchild making the young mother face up to her demonds. It's nice to know there's someone out there doing the responcible thing.

It is called tough love!

there are many young men who never was train to be responceable for thier actions to have some leadership training put the daddys in a four yr program in the Army.
it would give health care for the baby and wife better housing and they are force to save thier money