trust is a must, compassionate, kind, good listener (even when its just crap)responsible, caring, must be good in the bedroom or at least know his way around, looks? not really important if he has all the other things

idk. all the guys i've gone out with end up being jerks.

Regarding women,

mentally/emotionally:
courage, understanding, compassion, dignity, respect for privacy, tolerance/patience, the ability to think outside the box, compatibility with my own way of thinking/feeling(similar interests--no clashing interests which would divide us), creativity, imagination, a little shyness that inspires me to be the courageous one, good listenner as well as a good speaker(communication), good sense of humor without being too crude/rude/smartass...um...maybe more later:P

physically:
overall a look that inspires me both actively and artistically(varies, eye of the beholder), someone who can keep up with me physically(not necessarily thin and trim but in good enough shape to match speed/dexterity), someone close in height, eyes I can get lost in or which ignite a fire in me, full or welcoming lips, a nice upper body(not necessarily a big chest), no makeup(low-maint.)...
optional preferences: long dark hair, "rabbit teeth" smiles, stylish glasses

Loyalty,Intelligence,courage,morality, able to adjust to change if necessary, quick wit,
playful, cheerful,good work ethic, not a miser nor a spendthrift, of average or better looks, grooming counts.

I forgot, coordinated,empathetic, adventurous, not too much of a risk taker though,and believes in God.
what did I forget?

Licks his hand and grooms his hair:P

tsk.

definately good in the bedroom

a companion in life should be your rock and steadfast. If he/she isn't there when you need them most, to hell with them. They should cheer you up when ur blue, and keep u happy. They shouldn't ever stray and if they do, to the basement of hell with them!

The ability to overlook faults and address problems with tenderness.

Just one quality.............to love unconditionally...........