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so, where do i start. to be honest i really don't mind sharing my thoughts with strangers.i mean its a way to vent and let some steam out. so heres my question and i'd like real response..i dated a this girl..(oh yeah its always about a girl) so we dated for about 1 year and things were going great..i mean we had a grreat time together..but the time came when she had to move away for the purpose of taking a job. thats not the problem really..as a considerate person that i am i wasn't really gonna stop her and say "hey, don't take that job!!" so as time past i decided i would move closer to her and things would be great..but the total opposite happened..we had small disagreements and things just didn't go great anymore..after all the eye opening experiance we both had we decided to end the relationship..which to be honest again..i was ok with it because i didn't want her to be with someone shes not trully happy with..so blah blah blah..i move back and things kinda go smooth ..we still talk and shit and everything seems real normal..we were friends before we dated lets be friends after...but all of the sudden shes not picking up my calls, not answering my text (and i'm thinking somethings wrong with her..i really was) and after about 1-2 weeks she writes me on mypace that "we r no longer friends and that i shouldn't talk to her ever again " and blah blah blah...so heres my question..what the hell happened..and i really don't know...i really didn't have anything to respond to her so i haven;t really said/writing any since...
this might not make any sence..and if u read this and have something to say..go for it..i'd like to hear what u gotta say...and if u have questions about stuff u didn't understand ask away...
well..thanks for ur time...enjoy
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Posted by RAM on 2008-07-24 23:12:22 | Rating: | Views: 55
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well,i should say honestly too,i am not an expert in this,but as a girl,i think,girl's heart is as deep as the ocean,even ourselves cant exactly tell what's going on in our mind,so how can boys?but i think,maybe there's sth she realised suddenly or she thought it is not good to be as friends with ex-bf,i dont know,it is mysterious.but i think,if you want to figure it out,you should ask her,who knows...maybe she just came across some difficulties?maybe it is just the time she needs you?there are plenty of possibilities...but as long as you still care about her,ask her...well i am not sure if it is right,anyway wish you both happy^^
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Posted by nina880224
on 2008-07-24 23:20:02
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Good remark from Nina and here is the man talk.I would say as a man must be a gentleman. sit back and think what had you said to her or what you did that might hurt her feeling, then make a move to talk to her to clear the air. SOmetime silent doesnt means bad, she might get into something that doesnt want to trouble you..so be positive when you approach her. good luck and all the best
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Posted by GnR
on 2008-07-24 23:33:52
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If I did something like that, which I have, it's because I met someone else. Having an ex and a new guy in your life isn't that easy. So it's easier...I know pretty harsh...to just stop all contact with the ex. I'm sorry your dealing with this. I'm not saying THIS IS whats happening...I'm just sayin that's why I stopped! Take Care
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Posted by JenLyn
on 2008-07-24 23:53:41
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I was actually going to say similar to what Jen said. I haven't personally done it but, several of my friends have. In particular situations where the new b/f is easily jealous. It may be putting her in a situation with the new b/f she doesn't like if you called or texted often. Not saying its right, or the reason she said that, but it does happen. If you ask her though, I would respond back through myspace, she probably picked that method of communication for a reason, and i wouldn't expect a quick reply. hope everything works out.
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Posted by shuttermom
on 2008-07-25 00:12:06
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The only way to know is to find out from her in some way. Otherwise you must accept it and decide what the next step in your life is.
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Posted by theviewfromsomewhere
on 2008-07-25 22:24:44
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