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Let me just being by saying that with all my bitching I just might have TWO valentines this year.....tee hee. The first one, D, is an old friend from high school that I had lost touch with and just recently started talking to. Apparently we had run into each other on my birthday but I don't remember being that I was drunkity drunk drunk. Then when I got pierced he called one of my friends WHILE I was getting pierced. He was really pleased to hear what I was doing.

D was the first guy my mother let spend the night at my house. We would always be at my house watching movies or going to Cici's Pizza, or skipping school AT my house. He and I were always just friends. It was actually D and Cindy who had the whole sexual tension thing going. It was fun to see until they finally gave in junior year of high school and everything went weird between all of us afterwards. He moved to San Antonio after high school and I hadn't seen or heard from him till last week (at least soberly).

So we were catching up and I was telling him of the boys I'm currently dating and my stupid valentine's day curse. He then said "WE ARE SPENDING VALENTINES DAY TOGETHER!!". And it's perfect. We decided we will have V-day lunch (so there are less crowds) and cocktails afterwards all on him. I DON'T EVEN HAVE TO PAY! I'm loving it already.

My second valentine........JV!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!......... ...maybe

He started texting me about two days ago. We had made plans of hanging out at my house after he got out of work and watch Who Framed Roger Rabbit, but he didn't seem 100% over the moon about it either.  He explained to me that he had already made plans to host a party at his apartment and wasn't sure he should leave his roommate, Gill, in charge (Gill had tried to kiss me on a several drunken occasions). Either way, he ended up bailing on me that night and I went to bed.

Last night was extremely uneventful in the boys category so I watched the Westminster Dog Show, like the nerd I am, and talked to D until I fell asleep. I was so excited when the Weimaraner won Best in Group - Sporting Division. I kept yelling to Luna (my four month old Weimaraner pup) "Look baby u won"!  I really thought the Weimaraner was going get Best In Show....but that stupid Beagle did. WHATEVER

2:30 a.m. JV calls.

I KNOW that he has been drinking before I even answer the phone.

JV: I don't want to have sex with you.
ME: (half asleep) What?
JV: I don't want to have sex with you.
ME: Um....ok. Sweetheart are you drunk?
JV: No. I want to be with you.
ME: What time is it? What? I'm confused.
JV: I just want to chill with you right now. I have all these people here at my apartment and I don't want to be here. I hate being alone. I want to be with you and watch Roger Rabbit. I don't want to be alone.
ME: (silence)...........so come over.

Let me first say that he assured me he was sober and could drive. He said he had only had three beers all night. So ok, I let him come over in his pjs. He looked really cute. He was nervous and sat on my computer chair.  He vehemently declined to sit next to me on my bed until he caved after 30 minutes.

JV: I just didn't want to call my ex-girlfriend. That's usually what I would do in this situation. But now there is you and I don't want to call my ex. I think I'm finally done with her. I just got tired of all the fighting.  Look at these bite marks (He showed me various bite marks on his body). Those aren't "I'm about to cum bites", those are "I fucking hate your guts" bites. And look at you! You even wear these sexy little nighties to bed and you weren't even expecting me (I wear stuff like THIS to bed every night unless it's freezing. It just makes me feel sexy). I had to beg her to wear stuff like that.........And I've always been attracted to you. But you were involved with him and I was involved with her....and now we are not.

He kept teasing me with candy. I've given up candy for Lent and it's agonizing. I'm a skittles, gummy bears, lolipop freak. So to deny me even the smallest of nerds is so wrong. I'm on the fast road to diabetes. Insulin shots here I come. And is it just me or does the song Lollipop by The Chordettes remind you of well...falacio.

He was still really nervous so I showed him my piercings.  Yeah, we weren't just chilling after that. HA HA!! Two hours later we were laying naked on my bed, all the sheets (including the fitted) were on the floor, and the bed had been moved over a foot to the left.

We talked about spending either Thurday or Friday together and watch Across the Universe and try out this new Greek restaurant that opened. He told me how he was going church tonight to play the drums in band that he performs in. I told him how I was going to go listen to Hillary Clinton give a speech this morning at the Convention Center ( I didn't, I over slept). But he hasn't called, and he hasn't sent a text. I'm starting to think that maybe I'm his rebound.

Did I make a mistake?  Did I let his talk of taking a sunrise, sprinkling it with dew, covering it in chocolate, and a miracle or two get the best of me??!!

I need candy.