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Talked to a guy online recently....and we recently had our first phone conversation...
Something that makes me a little uneasy:
He thinks a g/f shouldn't care if he goes to Hooters with his guy friends....yet he would be bothered if his g/f was to hang out with one of her guy friends one-on-one.
....this doesn't add up.
I hate when guys do this. Mostly because I have some guy friends that I am very close to. I've known them for years. If I wanted to date them, I would be dating them. There is a VERY good reason why we are only friends.
Now....if the boyfriend wanted to meet my guy friend....awesome. fine. But I mean....do I need a chaperone to hang out with a guy friend? NO!
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Posted by Quiet_Dreamer on 2008-09-16 01:00:08 | Rating: | Views: 46
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Knows this feeling well...
WHat can I say?:P
The whole Hooters/gentleman's club thing is bad news to me. Not allowed.
I too am bothered by girl's with guy friends more abundant than girl friends...shrugs. Just bad past experience...is all I can say.
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Posted by brainstormer
on 2008-09-16 01:12:35
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Yeah...but why condem (sp?) every girl based on past experiences?
If I did that (with guys), I would never feel comfortable leaving my boyfriend alone for the night. If I thought every guy was the same, then that means every guy would cheat on me when I went out of town for *one* night. It means that every guy I had a date with would stand me up without so much as a phone call, text, or email. Then he'd be a little chicken sh*t and not respond to my email asking what happened to him that night.
You have to believe that not everyone is the same.
You can't base everything off of the bad experiences in your life.
Whenever one of my guy friends comes into town (he lives several states away), we get together for dinner. It's not a romantic thing...usually he's checking out the cute waitress and I'm pointing out any customers that come in that I think he'd like...haha. We're friends. That's all.
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I'm going to give this guy the benefit of the doubt...he might have just been talking without thinking or maybe he's had bad experiences with girlfriends in the past (after all, we aren't even dating yet...no need to jump the gun on anything) but it is probably something I'll bring up in the future.
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Posted by Quiet_Dreamer
on 2008-09-16 08:50:06
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That's all you can do...its past lessons learned, present opportunities and future benefit of the doubts. You dont expect everyone to be a bad egg, yet if you hope for the best and expect the worst, you won't be disappointed. If you are accustom to guys being cheating scum, you protect yourself in the next instance so as to not repeat the mistake. Then, its up to you if you give them that "benefit" or not. If you don't learn from the past, yer doomed to repeat it. So, maybe some ppl get a lil judgemental/cynical.
Oh, and its spelled "condemn":P
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Posted by brainstormer
on 2008-09-16 18:43:50
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I knew I was missing some letters. Thank you sir. I was too lazy to google.
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Posted by Quiet_Dreamer
on 2008-09-16 23:09:30
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Well at least you knew to google and not just oogle or goog:P You could always ask Dot Com:P
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Posted by brainstormer
on 2008-09-16 23:49:02
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