| View Blog
|
|
| Oh crappy day...(boy issues too) Please comment!!
|
|
|
Ok, so my day sucked.
It started pretty much first thing...I didn't want to wake up, but I had things to do and work to attend...so I woke up.
Got dressed....putting on my makeup....and my bra breaks. Ugh. The underwire just.....popped. It's my favorite bra too! Grr....
Get to work, and it's a fairly smooth day....but my boss was kind of stressed and snapping at people unintentionally....and I picked up some of her stress before I left work for the day.
Then I got stuck behind stupid drivers on my way to meet my brother. One truck in particular was going 35 in a 45 zone. ARGH!
So I call my brother cause I'm meeting him at his school to bring him something, and he doesn't answer his phone. So I call again, he answers. But he wasn't where I thought he would be, so I had to drive around to meet him in another spot...and it was just aggravating. Basically, I was taking out my frustration on him. Poor guy.
Then I have to deal with the traffic coming home....
But then the weirdest thing happened.
I recently sort of re-updated my profile on this quiz/dating site thing. I have also recently started talking to some guys on there. Two in particular. Both live similar distances from me....both have various good and bad things about them....
Well, the other night I was supposed to talk on the phone with "Joe".....but before I could call him, "Mike" called me, and we were chatting and having a good time....but then Mike and I got into an argument and so I was trying to work on that...so I didn't get to talk to Joe.
Joe assumed (correctly) that I was on the phone with another guy when I had originally planned on calling him....so now he's not too happy. I mean, he says it's fine and we're cool.....but he also said: "we can talk, we can date, but that's about it."
uhm....what? I mean, I haven't met either of these guys in person yet. I wasn't looking for a marriage proposal within the next month. But what does he mean when he says we can't do anything more than date? Did he mean that since I was talking to him and ONE other guy that he can no longer trust me enough to maybe one day be his girlfriend?
If that's the case, why should I even bother dating the guy? Hell, why should I bother meeting him?
And furthermore....why can't I talk to other guys while I'm also talking with him? We haven't met....we aren't dating....we aren't exclusive....yet I'm supposed to just hang up my hat cause I'm texting and talking on the phone with Joe?
I don't get it.
I mean, I could understand it if I was running around making out with guys or sleeping with them and telling him that he's the only man in my life....but I'm not. I like talking to him, I want to meet him, and I've told him as much. I never once said anything even remotely close to being his one and only.
a little insight would be lovely.
P.S.- I figured he'd be talking to other girls on the site while he was talking with me, and I'm ok with that. He told me (tonight) that he hasn't though.....that I'm the only one he talks on the phone with.
|
|
Posted by Quiet_Dreamer on 2008-04-10 22:20:56 | Rating: | Views: 77
|
|
| |
|
|
| Blog Comments
|
|
|
|
|
i can Never get through the point of insecurity rooted deep inside guys.why the hell are they always soo much into caging their girls...friends or a fairer sex related to them in any way...they are never content in what they get and are always more interested in our relationship with others...well..i agree with you,no point investing in a guy who on such an early stage of a relationship gets just sooo finiky...!!!
|
|
Posted by Thinkin
on 2008-04-11 00:40:27
|
|
|
|
Damn you and your big boobs!:P Poor bra:(...:D haha
And, uh, hi, Im Joe:D Well, I see a bit of myself in his reactions anyway:P Yes, it is a complicated snake-like possessive issue mess that could easily cause us to self-destruct when we realize how wrong we are to demand such "exclusivity". SIGH! I think I may be solo for....no, no...gotta think positive...
|
|
Posted by brainstormer
on 2008-04-11 01:32:58
|
|
|
|
brainstormer: (you know, if I abbreviated it, your name could be BS...hehe) Now how did I know you'd be focusing on the bra issue? :-P
The thing is...if "Joe" was mad/annoyed because I was supposed to call him and (basically) instead stood him up for another guy...THAT I could understand. But to tell me that he's mad because I am also talking to another guy? Stupid.
Honestly, I don't think I'd ever let a guy tell me "you can't talk to ____" unless there was a VERY good reason.
Jealousy and/or insecurity are not very good reasons.
Thinkin: Thanks for the comment. It sucks that he wound up reacting the way he did. In a way it was good though, cause it really made me step back for a moment and think about what I might or might not be getting myself into with this guy.
|
|
Posted by Quiet_Dreamer
on 2008-04-11 16:48:11
|
|
|
|
Well, I guess I'm out;/....:P Nah, let it be your call:P But, I wont get half a chance anyway.
Wow, you first got the BS thing now? Gee, nothing gets past YOU, QD:P
|
|
Posted by brainstormer
on 2008-04-11 22:13:51
|
|
|
|
|
And, the only reason I focussed onthe bra issue is 1) I didnt really want to get involved between other guys:P and 2)I had a funny thought on the spot.
|
|
Posted by brainstormer
on 2008-04-11 22:14:57
|
|
|
|
It's cool (the boob comment), no biggie.
and YES, i just noticed the BS thing. Thanks for the boost of confidence.
|
|
Posted by Quiet_Dreamer
on 2008-04-11 22:51:06
|
|
|
|
|
Hey swetie be happy and do what you can. Enjoy life to the fullest and you will have a great day. As for the boss be kind and be happy that you do have a job as others do not.
|
|
Posted by norm4u2
on 2008-04-12 21:04:03
|
|
|
|
|
|
Email This to a Friend 
