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okay so there's this guy at my school that is really funny and stuff and i kinda want to be friends with him (i don't even have a crush on him i just would want to be friends) because he seems like he'd be really awesome to hang out with. but here's the problem. at school i'm the quiet type... you know... never really expressing myself that much. (idk why i'm like that i just am and i really don't like it but it's hard for me to change.) and people that don't really know me probably think i'd be really boring to be around you know? and this guy really doesn't know me. well he knows my name which is a surprise (HA HA not really it's on my p.e. clothes). anyway, he's also just the opposite of me. he doesn't mind doing weird things to be funny. so can anyone give me some advice on how to get him to think of me as more than just a quiet little boring person and someone he'd want to get to know? actually if anyone has advice on how to get EVERYBODY to think that that'd be great.... i really hate being the person i am at school. if i could only find a way to feel comfortable taking my home personality to school with me... more people would probably want to be my friend, including the guy i'm talking about here.
Posted by QTgurl on 2009-10-10 15:43:10
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Friendships are born naturally. If you pretend to be something you are not just to try to get someone to be your friend, the friendship will only last as long as you can keep up the pretnding, which may just cost you your current friends and in time the frined you are wanting. Just be yourself and the next time he does something you honestly find funny, laugh and then tell him how funny he was and that you like his sense of humor. When ever you run into him be sure to say Hi, even if it is just passing in the halls at school. The only way to get to know someone and become their friend is to talk to them. If you are as you say, a quite person, changing that to try to get him to be your friend will not work, it will drive him away from you. Friendships are created when two people are themselves and like each other for that, if you try to become something you're not, no one will want to be your friend.
Posted by DarkAngel_Travis on 2009-10-10 16:36:53  
I ditto Dark Angel.
Posted by Dafny on 2009-10-10 21:44:03  
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