Look, there's someone out there for you; someone who will treat you like you mean something to him. Just be yourself, be cautious, and don't shut a man down just because he seems interested in you. Pay attention to the signals and vibes a man gives off; players almost always signal what they are, and their signals don't match their words. Trust your instincts. A good man doesn't just speak of honesty and good things, he signals his honesty and goodness and he proves himself. Finally, even a good man screws up, occasionally, but he will admit when he's made a mistake and try to make amends for it. Be patient, and ignore the guys your instincts tell you are no good players.