Had an interesting chat with a close friend of mine over Skype:

Friend : He said, "If I'm not a Christian, I would have bailed out from the relationship a long time ago". Whereas if me, I would say, "If I don't love him so much, I would have gone a long time ago".

Me : Agree! He need to be re-christianize again!

Friend : I hope he'll see that he truly loves her for who she is and the happiness she brought into his life and not because 'God commands me to love her'. That is so so wrong.

Me : It's unhealthy...

Christianity....an obligation?