Hello everyone,

Have you ever found yourself wanting to ask someone, "Why don't you like me?", when it becomes quite apparent to you that this person doesn't , for whatever reason? Perhaps they all of a sudden stopped speaking to you or maybe they have just stopped altogether smiling in your direction. You start thinking to yourself, "Hell....I know for a FACT that I have NEVER done or said anything negative about this person so why am I getting treated like this!? At this point, your mind starts going all over the place and you start worrying about where you went wrong with this person or how you have created this kind of reaction. When it gets to this point, you just have to say, "Lord, I dont know what I've done to this person, but I want to pray for them and I hope that You will bless them and bring some sort of compassion to their hearts."

Since I do not care to start a fires, nor do I care to get myself burned by fire or attempt to put out any existing fires, I will not discuss this situation online. As I have previously mentioned, I do not start fires. I prefer to sit back and just watch fires burn around me until they can no longer burn. I just sit back and watch this glowing blaze as it adds a godly smile to my previously confused face. I know that this fire will eventually put itself out and I refuse to allow myself to be near any of the ashes or choke on the smoke that it will create. I think you all get the picture, but some of you may be just a tad bit slow in the logic and reasoning department, so I will explain each phrase to you bit by bit.

1) Starting a fire......"This means to esculate an already bad situation into something much worse, which will eventually lead to mental or physical harm to the person or persons involved."

2) Getting burned by the fire...."After initiating trouble with someone, you end up being approached the situation in the mode of a serious confrontation which HAS now lead to mental and physical harm to the person or persons involved." 

3) Putting the fire out..."Is noticing that someone is feeling negative towards you and approaching them about their negativity and unwelcomed dislike for you ."

4) Sit and watch the fire burn..."When you allow someone that doesn't like you to continue showing their unsettling dislike for you knowing that it is stressing them out and making their otherwise already shitty lives a pure living hell."

5) Smile at the glowing fire..."It is a proven fact that if someone doesn't like you and you show that person no reaction to their encumbant feelings, one of the two things will eventually happen;
     a) They will continue to be stressed about their dislike for you whenever you are in their presence, which will
          cause eventual anguish and stress for them, which will eventually lead them to an unhealthy life.
     b) You will live a happy and stress free life not worrying about how people feel about you and on   
          top of that, you can sit back and gleefully watch them make a complete ass of themselves while you
          are smiling & continuing to move on with your gratifying life. "

6) The fire will put itself out..."As I've said before, these negative feelings will eventually take over this person and they will eventually end up with an unhealthy life and failures in their life. They will be too busy spending time disliking you to focus on doing themselves any good in their own empty lives. "

7) I dont want to get near the ashes or choke on the smoke......"Keep your distance from people like this because if you get too close to them, you will become combustible as well. Force yourself to display class at all times no matter what the situation. Every child needs an adult to set examples for them, so if you have to be the adult in the situation, by all means....DO IT!!!!  :- )

I hope this explains the main point that I am trying to get across. We've been told since we were young children that we should NOT play with fire. This is a lesson that you must follow throughout your entire life...not just when you are a child. Don't get burned by fire. If a person shows in their demenure that they don't care for you, you must continue smiling and acknowledging them in a respectful way. Don't let nobody talk bad about your parents saying, "Dang....her parents didn't raise her right!!! Life is too short and we are ALL on borrowed time as long as we are breathing.

REMEMBER: God is the only one you should ever try to please while you are temporarily on earth. Humans are only obstacles that you have to face in order to make it to Heaven. Life is a test. Pass the test!! Love thine enemies and pray for them because "they know not what they do". :-)

P.E.JAY
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