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Tied Up

I don't know how else to explain it other then as a "crush gone wrong". 6'1 Green eyes brown hair and a smile to die for. Smart, funny, sweet, cute and cocky all rolled into one. He was perfect. I'll start the story from the begining so you don't miss any important information. :)
      About 5 months ago me and "X" started talking, we of corse met at work. We was both coming back in from our break and he had a classic car I love classic cars so we was talking about his car. From there it grew into taking breaks at the same time so we could talk and coming back from lunches early just so we would have a couple minutes to b*tch to one another about how much we hate our jobs and how we would rather stay outside and talk. Lol. We would tease one another all that time about random things and poke fun at one another and sometimes for no real reason we would have sirious converstations.
      Around 2 months ago "K" and myself were talking and she gets this sirious face and she was like you know I now know who it is you remind me of! I was like well who do I remind you of? "K" then informed me that I remind her of Fiona off of Shriek. I was of corse a bit annoyed with this comment. I don't know why it really bothered me because I personally thought Fiona was adorable. So we both just start laughing and "B" comes around the corner and "K" was saying now all we have to do is find you a Shriek. "B" was like oh you must mean "X". "K" then looks at me with this huge smile on her face and was like you like "X" and I couldn't lie about it so I was like yes. Well aparently "K" has know "X" sense he was little.
     So "K" goes back to "X's" department and tells him about my crush on him and he (from what "K" says) told her that he liked me too. She then informs me of all of this and I am of corse happy. "X" and I start talking every day all the time. He would even call me in my department just to talk to me. Which made me so Happy. We started talking before work, at break, when he would come back from lunch and before we went home from work. He aparently liked me or he was just really amused with my crush on him. But either way neither of us got the nuts to ask the other out.
       So "X" started calling me Fiona and everyone started calling him Shriek. He didn't get annoyed or tell them to stop he would just smile and keep on doing whatever he was doing before hand. Which I thought was pretty funny.
        A month ago "X" informed me that he was going to transfer to overnights which kind of made me sad because I wouldn't get to see him or talk to him that often, but then I figured theres always after work because when I would be getting off he would just be coming in. And besides that there is always online and text messaging. Then a week after he get on his overnight shifts we was talking online and he informed me that he had quit Saturday and that he would be moving to another town about 3 or 4 hours away from here. ( I wish I could move away from here too.) Which was really hard because I still liked him and I still do. He could make me smile even when I wanted people to just drop dead.
    Now everytime someone calls me Fiona I think about him and sometimes me and "K" will be texting one another and she'll say something that makes me thinking about him and I miss him again. Plus people that we worked with will ask me what I'm going to do now that "X" is gone sense we was attached at the hip. And I think about it and tell them that we wasn't attached at the hip but then I think about it again later and everytime people seen us well we was togather and then I realize I don't know what I'm going to do because even though he's gone I still miss him and want to talk to him.
   I don't know why exactlly I miss him so much sense we weren't togather. But I do. I mean sometimes we talk online but it's not really the same. I don't know what to do because I want to not miss him. It's just ignorent because I should just get over it but it's just there. What should I do? How do I move on and away from something that wasn't really there?