3. Is Monogomy no longer attainable? And does it work in the new millenium?

(5/1/2007)

OK....think I'm ready to put my thoughts, views, perspectives & opinion on Monogomy. Monogomy is the ultimate sacrifice in love between 2 commited people. And for the most part it has been accepted as the norm throughtout history. And it seems we all have dreams of monogomy (marriage, the big family, kids, white pickett fence, puppy, etc). But as we take a close look at our surroundings, we see that EVERYBODY'S F$#%KING. What has brought this about???? What is causing people to stray on such a consistent basis???? Is it that things are lacking at home or just greed??? We're also in the age of information. By the time we're 10, we've already been exposed to so much. Endless information is just a click of your mouse away. And TV doesn't seem to be holding any punching either. So what does this say for 10, 20 & 50 year anniversaries??? I don't know. It isn't looking too good. Right now we are getting together for the wrong reasons. For looks, for status, for money, for lust, for convenience, etc. But not for love. Not for companionship. Not for family building. And most importantly, not for the beauty of a persons personality. I'm not saying find yourself an ugly chick/dude and love the %#&@$! out their personality. I'm saying find someone you are attracted to and find the real them...somewhere hidden behind societies pressure to be, well, stereotypical. Find something more than the tangibles to base your relationship on. Something only the person you want to be committed to can offer. Basically we gotta change of line of thought. We need to let love and common sense dictate instead of videos, music, movies, and peer pressure. Cause remember, when it all comes down to it, YOUR THE ONE THAT HAS TO LIVE WITH YOUR DECISIONS. ..........til the next topic....