Did you write this? This is absolutly mind blowing especially your last picture, thats cool".

Yes I wrote this. It's how I'm feeling at the moment. I love that last picture as well

nobody is unloveable, im almost positive, there are people we all feel dont deserve to be loved and yet they find it, so im sure one day you will and it will be amazing, because from this it sounds like you deserve it more than alot of people do.

and dont search, love will come to you x

I do hope so, it just gets discouraging at times, especially since all I ever seem to find are false promises and lies

When I read this I teared up. You are not unloveable he just wasn't good enough for you. When the time is right the RIGHT man will come along and all those who played games with you will see what they had and gave away because of stupidity. Keep your head up.

Thank you, it's hard to think otherwise at times, especially when I opened my heart up all the way, but I appriciate it. You're sweet

You are not unloveable....you will find love, I'm not being mean but you have to look for love in the right person, it seems the ppl in your past were not worthy of your love and I know I make this sound simple, when its really not but first off my advice to you is to get over your past and don't let it be a hinder to your future....We love with our hearts the ppl that we are most attracted to but may not be the person that is for us we want these ppl more that we want out next breath but these ppl probably don't have what it takes to make us happy for any length of time...yeah they are good for the moment and we accept that but they are not for us. We have to be more into the person that share our morals and values instead on what they look like its so easy to fall for the wrong person but so hard to find the one that longs to love us and that person is there wishing you would notice them. Give yourself sometime and find out what you really want in a relationship get over ya past love and that will take time but you can do it learn to love yourself. Learn to take urself out to the movies to dinner, learn to love you and then you can say hey I love me and this is what I want and this is what I'm going to get be proactive in your new search and know that love is out there staring you right in the face you just have to be open to what you need and want in a person. Don't be afraid to let them know off the bat what you want and expect if they can't handle that then guess what..its not meant to be, move on to the next guy. I hope that I have helped in some small way.

My past defines who I am, it has molded me and will always be there. Best I can hope for is that the future will be different. I've stopped looking for love, it's become to hard. Perhaps this is just what I need to do, in order to see clearly again

well .... probably because from a very logical standpoint, it is difficult to find a logical hierarchy behind love.

Love is never logical, as much as I wish it would be at times, if only to understand it better

I like the lil stick figure giving up her heart best. You do have a fairly good collection of pics...no idea where people find these sometimes.

I don't know about you, but I blame myself sometimes. It's easy for me to say "the world is lacking love" or "I am not loveable" or "the world has made me this way". But, I realize my own inability to stand tall and be confident in approaching those I find interesting is as much my own fault as others'. If I would only snap out of this "coma" of "duh" and make a move, I'd surely find more people that I seek than to let them find me. But, I just keep "farting" and failing to make that move.

The other side of this post is jealousy/envy. When you see someone surrounded by or talking about all the lovely people in their lives, it's just a natural reaction for those without to turn green or ugly and snort at them. It's not necessary. And, it is just excess thinking to dwell upon their luck.

I have no problem with those that have lots of love in their lives. I don't turn green or get angry. Just those that play at love, gathering hearts only for fun and not because they care about them. I am not jealous over that, but angry, in a way.

I have trouble meeting people. I know if I could take a step and at least say 'hi', things might be different. Many times I won't bother, I'll see another trying and I'll back away. I'll see them looking towards someone else and I won't even try

I guess that's the difference between men and women:(
(as I have said many times before here)

Women are many like flowers or fruits...and men take their pick. I suppose the women look around like "Is he going to come to me or her over there? Maybe she is prettier to him."

Meanwhile, a guy like me who feels like you hesitates just as badly...and I just see women pass me by. I am often afraid of what lies beyond the pretty face. Perhaps there are tales I do not wish to be a part of... And, perhaps, sadly, there is a not-so-pretty face among the crowd I miss that is truly a better person for me. Who's to say? But, I dream repeatedly of a certain face...sometimes more than one...there is no perfect mate...so how do I choose? And, do I take what I can get in front of me? Or,...how do I know Im not wasting my time on this one over that one?

Yea...plagues the mind, doesn't it?:P sigh

Maybe it is just a lacking in confidence, that we need. I like to believe that there are those just as hesitant in saying hi to me, who don't because it looks like I haven't looked their way. When I've been stealing glances at them

How sad if we were stealing glances at each other and neither of us said the first "hi":P

If neither one said hi, yes, would be sad. But if one gathered the courage, maybe that's when dreams come true

i do think a lot of people that have found love do not appreciate it.there are so many people that just crave a body next to them.they don't put any thought into it.they are not using their head nor are they using their heart.they are simply trying to find someone who will stand next to them and smile and wave and look good in a skirt or a tie and that is it.it's like picking a beautiful flower and neglecting to give it sunlight or water it or talk to it.i think people like us ,who truly understand the value of the heart and how powerful love can be and what it is capable of ....i think we are overlooked because we have this longing in our soul to not only give ourselves to another person but we understand that love can truly not be called love and exist in its strongest and purest form unless it is reciprocated.sure, we find someone and we slobber our love all over them like a dog when its owner comes home.but, they just brush us off for whatever reason.still, i believe that one day we will be loved.we will be appreciated for who we are and what we have to offer.love,after all in order to truly flourish in all of its glory must be appreciated.for if someone finds love just to have it standing next to them waving and smiling and does not truly appreciate it .....then, i ask you ....is this truly love we are talking about?

I would like to believe that :) And I do agree. One day (^_^)