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I figured if I'm going to start using this as a messed up version of a diary that's open to the world, I should probably at least let you guys know a bit about me. I don't think my life is all that interesting, but it is a bit fucked up sometimes. I'm a 25 year old woman working full time as an accounting department assistant for a large corporation here in Wisconsin. I actually work for a temp agency but I've been at this corporation for a year and a half now and am just awaiting for a employment opportunity to open up at the actual corporation. I had no accounting experience when I started here, so this has been quite the challenge! But I like almost everyone I work with and get along with them as well, which is very important in a job. And I enjoy it most days, which is about as much as you can ask for. I am divorced, although I wouldn't have considered my marraige to really count. When I was 21 I married a military man right before he deployed, and we got divorced when he got back. I know my mistakes there, and we're still good friends which is all that really matters to me. Deployment sucks... I hated having that feeling that everytime the phone or doorbell rang unexpectedly I stopped breathing scared it was the news no one wanted. But he came home safe and sound. Family is the most important thing in the world to me, and considering I come a very large one, they keep me busy quite often. If you have anything messed up in your family, I've most likely been through it or a have a relative that has. I come from a divorced family where I'm the oldest out of five children. My brother Brat is 21 and a wrestler about to go into his senior year of college for criminal justice. My sister Pitz is 17 where if my mother doesn't kill her first our main goal is to see her graduate at the end of this next school year. My sister Stinker is 2 and the cutest thing EVER! And my last sister Bugger is 1 and the only one who doesn't look like the rest of the four of us. I brag about my baby sisters all the time as if they're mine... but that's only because they're so damn cute! I'll have to attach a picture at some point. My father (the father of Brat, Pitz, and I) is a real asshole who lives somewhere in Florida now with the woman he somehow found to actually marry him 3 months after the divorce was finalized. I can't really say anything about my step mother... I think I might have met her a handful of times... but I really don't know her. I grew up with an alcholic abusive father, so needless to say that divorce was a very happy time. My father has no rights to Brat or I, but because Pitz was too young he got half custody of her due to the judge's decision that my father has the right to change. Stupid... it's been 10 years now since the divorce and he still hasn't changed. He has the idea that he's a recovered alcholic who still socially drinks. None of the 3 of us have seen him in 5 years. I only talk about him on the few months a year he decides to attempt to be a father to Pitz and confuses her and sends her into a whole emotional mess. (asshole) I'm just happy he can't have any more children. On a better note, my mother (who is the mother of all 5 of us) is the best woman in the world... and could quite possibly be a saint. She's basically raised the older 3 of us on her own and I can't imagine having to do that. She's my mother and she still pisses me off once in a while, but she's an amazing person. My step dad (who I will refer to as dad... I do that... I have father and dad) is indescribable. He took on the 3 of us and my mother and then had 2 other children and coming from a single guy living alone to the father of 5 and a husband is an amazing thing. He is a wonderful man and dad, I couldn't have asked for a better person to join our family. My mother was adopted so with that and the divorce I have six living sets of grandparents and all the family that stems down from there. I only know 5 of the sets... but that still leaves a very large family and a lot of crazy stories.  Otherwise I deal with dating issues (which always sucks) and just normal life stuff. Trying to find my balance and happiness, which is becoming easier every day. I just get scared I'm making the wrong choices... but I've heard that's normal... so I guess I'm good!  That's a little about me...
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Posted by Nickitumbo on 2008-07-28 10:33:58 | Rating: | Views: 41
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wow nicki! that's quite an intro!
sounds like a busy life for a working girl!
welcome to thoughts.com!
cheers!
:)
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Posted by badlydrawnstickman
on 2008-07-28 11:23:48
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