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I met a new guy on xmas day. We have been chatting online for quite some time and it was the only time that our schedules conincided. He's a nice guy and really seems to get my on a bunch of levels. I really like who he is as a person, but I am a bit apprehensive. I like his personality and his facial features, but he is a bit of a big guy. I would really love to see him drop a good 50 lbs. I know that this sounds superficial, but I think my attraction level for him would really skyrocket. I am talking about physical attraction which has to be a big part of any major relationship. I am by no means a skinny gal and I do know how it is to be much heavier. I have lost 60 lbs. in the past year. My energy levels have gone way up and I feel so much better about myself in general, but this has got to be something that he wants to do for himself and I don't want to change a person. I still have more weight that I would like to lose, so my journey isn't over yet.
The big questions: Do I want to continue to form a further friendship with him? Do I talk to him about my thoughts? If so, how do you approach a person without angering him?
I have other concerns as well. I work days with my weekends off. He works nights and most weekends. If we continue to see each other, when are we going to find time to see each other?
Any thoughts would be appreciated.
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Posted by Newlife on 2007-12-28 17:20:41 | Rating: | Views: 82
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I would like to share something with you but I have to be careful because I don't want to hurt anyone. I jog on a 3 mile private beach. I like to jog naked every day at sunrise. The beach was clothing optional and only accessible to adjacent property owners. One day last June, I saw this guy coming out of the water from a swim. He waved me over ask ask if he could jog with me. I said ok and we jogged to the east end of the beach. As we sat on a rock catching our breath, I told him if he wanted to jog with me he had to remove his Bermudas as I wouldn't jog with anyone who wore clothes when I didn't. He agreed, I almost asked him to put his trunks back on. He had a nice tan everywhere except on his white hairy ass. So I said to him, you need an all-over tan but I'll give you a month to get it. So we met and jogged every day during the summer. When I first met him he was round shouldered and had a pot belly. I told him if he wanted to jog with me he needed to buff up, lose the belly and straighten his back but gave him a few months to do it. He joined a local gym at my suggestion. We have been jogging now for about 6 months, daily swims and workouts have trimed him up into a very nice package. This is not a romantic interest. He is 42, married with 3 kids. I do like him and he is a great jogging buddy.
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Posted by penumbra88
on 2007-12-28 17:46:24
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