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Ok.... I finally met a guy that seems like he's worth something (I mean, besides you TAC!)... He's smart, he's funny, he's got an awesome personality.... And I am SO fucking uncertain.
So I met him last week. This girl I use to work with, who we will call Jane for the sake of the story, called me up and said "Hey, want to go on a double date?" So I said yes. I was at the point then of breaking up with my then boyfriend, so I was kind of like Eh, what the hell??
Anyway, so we're going to call the guys Dan and Jon. So, Dan was with Jane, I was with Jon. I didn't really connect with him but who cares? We went to a movie, and then we went to a bar. Now it gets interesting.
Jane is 8 weeks pregnant. So when she suggested going to the bar to hang out, I figured she would just be drinking soda. Nope. She was drinking rum and coke like it was fucking going out of style. So Jon was busy talking to a buddy of his, and Dan, Jane and I were talking. Of course, no one agreed with what she was doing, but she's 30. We tried to tell her not to, but again, she's 30. She wasn't going to listen to anything we had to say.
So we left before the bar closed and all ended up at Dan's house. Now, he's got a hot tub. You know why doctors tell pregnant women not to go hot tubbing? Because their womb keeps a baby nice and warm. You add 200 degrees to that, and you've got a boiler. Guess who got in the hot tub? Jane. And guess who had to take her to the hospital at 3:00 in the morning? Me.
We didn't get out until 7 AM. I was so fucking exhausted. She managed to NOT kill the baby. And while she's laying there, she has the nerve to say, "I don't believe in abortion. If I can't lose this baby naturally, I'm going to have to keep it."
Well, she was basically trying to self abort her baby.
Anyway, so since I had taken her to the hospital, I exchanged numbers with Dan and had been texting him. Anyway, he started talking to me on a normal basis. We both agreed that Jane wasn't someone either of us wanted to really know. He called me one day, and aksed if I wanted to hang out. So I agreed and found a sitter.
We went up the mountain to this really awesome secluded spot that reminded me of something out of a story book. We watched the stars and when he leaned over to kiss me, I stopped him.
"Hey, we need to talk. I'm not Jane. I don't sleep around. So if you just want sex, then you really need to just tell me now."
He said no, he wanted to date me and see where things went.
So, I was single for all of like 6 hours. Well, that was like last week. We hadn't really talked to Jane and blew her off whenever she asked to hang out. She went back to the bar on Friday.
Saturday was my friend Jen's birthday so we all went to the bar to celebrate. we were just sitting there hanging out and Jane walked in. About 5 minutes later, Dan walked in. Cat was out of the bag.
And of course she started shit -- or tried to, with the entire 20 or so people there hanging out for Jen's birthday. She kept making threats and shit, and of course no one was going to touch her because she was pregnant and that's felony assault.
So, by the end of the night, we were all fed up with her shit but trying to make the best of things. Finally, we were out on the dance floor and Jane and whatever guy she was dancing with kept bumping into our group. Well, Dan bumped back once, the guy grabbed Jen's arm, and then Dan tackled him and started beating on him.
Members of our crew broke up the fight before the bouncers ever got there, but because the other dickweed was friends with one of the bouncers, he got to stay and Dan got kicked out.
Well, I have fallen for Dan fast in any case. We've been dating only a few days, but he's the first good thing that has happened to me in a REALLY long time. But something has me freaking out. Like, I'm so afraid of losing him already.... it feels like we've been dating longer than we have and I really like him. He's an awesome person. All my friends approve, which is probably a world record, lol.
Eh. I wish things were simpler. He hasn't met the kids yet. I think it's too soon. Fuck me running. I really like him. FUCK! |
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Posted by Necromancer on 2008-07-22 01:01:52 | Rating: | Views: 32
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he sounds like a really nice guy. but i think ur scared (well no freakin duh!) of loosing him and getting hurt again. im not gonna tell u to totally put down ur guard, but im not gonna tell you to stop the relationship. i think u should date him a bit more :) good luck
- Nova
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Posted by xmidnightxwingsx
on 2008-07-23 01:50:50
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