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 A secret revealed about me.
                 I noticed a lot of people talking about this and thought I would give my take on the whole thing. (I usually don't do this or reveal so much about myself, so bare with me.)

     I was once bias, I use to like women better than men. They are smarter, wiser, and they think before they act. They are sexier, prettier, they smell better, their minds are magical, and they kiss better. (Or at least that is what I have came to discover. Even the love of my life doesn't kiss as well as some of my friends in the past.)

So, I hope I don't discourage my readers away by what I just said or what I am about to say. The females that I dated, were very emotional and needy. Eventually, I fell in love with a guy that was my complete opposite. He really is, in every way the love of my life. 
                                                                          If things do not work out with him,                                      I doubt I will fall in love again, I doubt I will want to.

                                  When I was younger my dad use to beat my mom,(My dad has changed. Though, he can not change his past he tries to make it up to my mom everyday in the future. I know in my heart, that he isn't the man I once hated.) and then my friend got raped by her boyfriend. It just seemed like everywhere I turned, men were 'evil' My grandfather was the only male that I respected and admired. But he suffered and eventually died from cancer when I was just in 6th grade.

                 Ryan showed me how to trust again. He showed me that all men aren't evil. I gave him a chance and he gave me his heart. 

                            Anyways, I have been with both females and males and I have discovered that we all have hearts that break and emotions that get played with.
Why do people judge each other based on who we fall in love with? You can not control your heart or what it desires.

So, lets stop with all the hate and let people love who they want to love.
Best wishes,
*Miss Nightmare*

    Posted by MissNightmare on 2009-11-04 20:32:48 | Rating: | Views: 171
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I was once bias, I use to like women better than men. They are smarter, wiser, and they think before they act. They are sexier, prettier, they smell better, their minds are magical, and they kiss better. (Or at least that is what I have came to discover. Even the love of my life doesn't kiss as well as some of my friends in the past.)

girls can be a cheating lil bitch also and as for smarter and wiser and they think before they act thats soo not true that stuff has too do with who the person is not sex . i know many girls who dont think and they have 9 kkids by 9 different guys soo that statement is wrong .not trying too be mean just stating that fact as for kissing and sexual stuff thats personal choice thats chill .
Posted by  bossman12334  on 2009-11-04 20:39:41 
  
Well, the 'girls' I was with had a pretty good head on their shoulders. I only liked a certain type. The preppy girls, the band types, the cheerleaders, the nerds, just were not worth the time.

Lol, thank you for your comment,
*Miss Nightmare*
Posted by  MissNightmare  on 2009-11-04 20:44:05 
  
lol i took ur advice and studied you and ive found a lot of stuff u know . just one thing i need to ask why soo dark and acting soo scarey? ur nto scarey if people know who u are its like a wall u try too build that i got by
Posted by  bossman12334  on 2009-11-04 20:50:49 
  
I act scary? I merely write about what interests me. I do not act as though I am anything. If you see me as being scary then you must have failed at understanding me. There is always something you have missed, look closer. Pieces are missing and your understanding only goes so far. The mere truth is you do not understand. For if you did you would realize that I am not scary and do not try to act scary.

You failed.
Posted by  MissNightmare  on 2009-11-04 20:54:59 
  
then y so dark y miss nightmare ?
Posted by  bossman12334  on 2009-11-04 21:24:52 
  
Dark? Why would you suggest that I am dark? Is it the name? Is it my picture? I am starting to believe that you judge far to easily for if you truly knew me, then you would know that I am not 'dark'. Some of my blogs involve religion, hope, love, and learning from ones mistakes.

Mr. Bossman why do you suspect that I am dark? Is it because you judged a book by its cover? Read the pages before you write your review.
Posted by  MissNightmare  on 2009-11-04 21:35:40 
  
i dont judge i dont think sany less of u from ur cover and it was a simple remark on action . in no way do i judge ive done my research and some time si just cant get my point across i think this is on eof those in no way i didint wan ttoo insult u or anything . damn me and u just havent hit it off lol
Posted by  bossman12334  on 2009-11-05 18:11:44 
  
I was once bias too. I used to have hate for men because of the bullying I dealt with at school. I long so much a female imitate partner. I just found so much comfort in women. You pretty much summed up what I have learned about both sexes. But the thing with alot of women is that their emotions can go over board to the point of feeling needy.
Posted by  phylicialakole27  on 2009-11-04 21:05:12 
  
The 'neediness' is one of the difficulties for being with a woman. Plus, some of the people I was with were very clingy. I am not the type of person that likes to be clinged to.

Best wishes,
*Miss Nightmare*

Posted by  MissNightmare  on 2009-11-04 21:08:44 
  
My best friend, Diane, is gay and I am completely straight...never had a problem with it and why? Because I am the one that "brought her out". My best friend in high school, Larry, came out when we graduated high school even though he'd dated girls all his life. He introduced me to gay life and I went to gay bars with him, and had the time of my life! I made great friends with the gay guys and some of the lesbians even though they knew I was straight, they were all cool with me. My friend that I "brought out" never told me she was gay when we met, (we worked together), but I could tell she was gay, even though she too, had dated guys. Long story short, I brought her out, I've seen her date plenty of girls, and she and I have remained friends since then. I could care less who is straight, or who is gay. I grew up around gay people, hung out in gay bars for two years with my guy friend and my best friend, and those were some of the most fun times of my young life.

Some people may see you as "dark" or even "sinister" I think, from your avatar's. I don't see you like that at all. I just see you as the nice sweet person you appear to be in your blogs and comments.

Heck..I love ya girl!! LOL

...dani
Posted by  WalkinOnSunshine  on 2009-11-04 21:46:08 
  
Dani, you really say the nicest things. You are a very good friend! I can't see you at a gay bar. Lol, That really made me smile =D You really remind me a lot of my friend Sammi.

I guess I can appear to be dark and somewhat hidden but I don't try to be.
Thank you for everything,
*Miss Nightmare*

Posted by  MissNightmare  on 2009-11-04 21:56:26 
  
LOL you can't see me at a gay bar, well trust me, the whole cliental of the place knew me b/c I was there so often back then, lol. Its like I said, I had some of my best party days over at the gay clubs. Tons and tons of fun and I don't regret any of it. I'm thinking me and Sammi would be friends in real life too, lol.

Don't have to thank me for anything..its been a pleasure meeting and reading, you. :)
Posted by  WalkinOnSunshine  on 2009-11-04 22:00:08 
  
Haha, eventually I shall force her to blog. Though she claims she hates the word 'blog'. Sammi once got drunk and the next day people were coming up to her saying, "Hey, Barbie girl." Her solo at the local bar is still remembered to this day. (Imma barbie girl, in a barbie world. imagenation life your creations... did I just murder those lyrics?)

Lol, Best wishes,
*Miss Nightmare*
Posted by  MissNightmare  on 2009-11-04 22:11:49 
  
I love that song! But, I haven't kissed a girl - at least not that I can remember. As I have gotten older, I have found I am less certain of things I used to know. I do not think less of you for exploring your options. I may not understand a dual attraction, but I am not dead yet, so who knows what tomorrow will bring. I joke about switching teams all of the time as most women I know understand women better than most men I know. (this is not to say 'all men' or 'all women' think the same way). The more I think about people, the more I realize we all just want to be loved for who we are and that is how I look at life. Just be who you are and don't worry about what anyone else thinks.
Posted by  vestigesofhermind  on 2009-11-04 22:09:08 
  
Vestigesofhermind,
I love your avatar's they are so peaceful. I joke all the time about it with my guy friends. I even sometimes threaten my boyfriend. He once said that if I went back to girls, then he would have a sex change. Lol.

"we all just want to be loved for who we are"
I couldn't have said it better myself,
Best wishes,
*Miss Nightmare*
Posted by  MissNightmare  on 2009-11-04 22:20:59 
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