People will tell you that you cant make anyone
else happy unless your happy yourself.
That's a crock of bull!
I live my life to make my friends and family happy!
That's the only thing that keeps me going.
Seeing them when theyre smiling and having fun.
Or even just being there to listen.
For me,
I cant be happy unless Im making other
people happy!
Not just friends and family either.
Anyone on the street, in a store, on a bus.
Doesnt matter.
If you just open a door for someone, or let them cut
in line at the bank.
I know this is also considered being polite, but
these days, not very many
remember how to do that.
But either way, when you act that way,
its makes people happy.
If you walk around with a smile on
your face, it spreads.
I know, I know. LAME!
But Im serious!
It works!
Anyway it goes, it shouldnt matter if your happy
or not, you can still make someone else
happy.
The only reason why I write this is because
today I got into a conversation
about this with a few other people
on another site.
I was told that I was greedy for attention.
That by 'making others happy', I was in turn
making myself happy.
And from that I grabbed the attention from
others who might have noticed.
It seems confusing, obsurd, really.
Heck, I dunno.
But on my behalf, a girl about my age
said it made me seem a little
selfless.
I assure you, I can be quite selfish at times.
But the girl was kinda right when
I thought about it.
I give my left leg if someone needed it
more than I did.
Anyway, now Im just rambling. It was just an interesting converstation and I thought I would share with you the jist of it and see if any of you had any input on it.