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I would like to thank the academy... on 2008-03-31 17:56:32 |
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You are too funny, although I must admit that I get pretty psyched when I make "the list"!
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I'M SICK!!! on 2008-03-31 16:16:26 |
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Feel better! I have to straighten my hair too - if I dry it naturally, it is somewhere between curly and wavy and not too attractive!
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Between Reality and Dream on 2008-03-31 16:14:43 |
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Wow - that was great.
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The Good, The Bad & The Ugly… on 2008-03-31 12:02:48 |
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Mandie - it totally sucks when you realize that a person you thought was a great friend really isn't and it is even tougher to let go sometimes. I am truly sorry. And, I am glad you have some other great friends and family.
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Random Thoughts .... out there on 2008-03-30 17:54:39 |
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Very uplifting post!
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Flat chested unite! on 2008-03-30 16:37:19 |
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Love it! I read "Are you there God it's Me Margaret" by Judy Blume 100 times when I was a kid. Margaret, at 12 years old, would do exercises to make her boobs bigger and chant over and over again "I must. I must. I must increase my bust". I tried them as well but, nope, still a very small 34B on a good day.
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My Father Stole My identity on 2008-03-30 15:35:39 |
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I have spent so much time feeling ashamed that my father is a criminal but HE is the one who should be ashamed. It is nice to hear it from objective people though. Thank you all so much.
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Therapy on 2008-03-29 19:10:32 |
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Ok, you posted this over 5 months ago so it is a little stale but, for the record, I am SO happy you yelled at Jay!!
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I found my Christmas Spirit. on 2008-03-29 18:49:20 |
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I am finally reading the entire story and I got the chills when I read this post. This is beautiful. And to all of those nay sayers who are all judgemental about the fact that you are married, screw'em. Life is too damn short. I am not promoting infidelity, mind you, but love is a rare thing and what you two have? That's love. Back to reading.
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My Father Stole My identity on 2008-03-29 18:04:10 |
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Thank you so much for those kind words. It has certainly been a tough road and I have no idea when it will end. Everytime I think it's over, I am mistaken. I am TRULY sorry if you can relate at all to this story. It sucks the big one.
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My Story ...16 on 2008-03-29 15:14:12 |
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I am so sorry that you lost your Dad so young, Prelude - especially since he was apparently a wonderful man and father.
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Is there any way to fix this? on 2008-03-29 15:10:24 |
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I made some amendments to some of my posts. I thought it was weird that I sometimes referred to "Brian" as "P" (I call him "Pittsburgh") and wanted to make it consistent. It "re-posted" the entries as being recent and now everything is out of order. I can't figure out how to fix it either! If you figure out how to edit without changing the date, let me know!
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Are we there yet? on 2008-03-28 17:54:51 |
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I certainly hope the trip gets better!
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Protection on 2008-03-28 17:31:23 |
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That was beautiful, Colorado. It really is a shame that a place where we are supposed to be safe and free to express our "thoughts" can be just the opposite. I have witnessed so many kind words of support from one blogger to another on Thoughts and it is one of the reasons I keep coming back. I hope peace prevails! Have a great weekend.
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The 30 year old crisis on 2008-03-28 16:53:51 |
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Ooops - just read your previous blog and see that you are engaged - probably won't be having fun with "men" but I am sure you will with your one "man"!
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The 30 year old crisis on 2008-03-28 16:52:25 |
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I DREADED during 30 and, while I might not have had as much "fun" as you in the months prior, I was definitely crazier in my 20s. That being said, I absolutely love being in my 30s - it's not the same as being in your 20s but it is wonderful. I have never been so comfortable in my skin as I am now. I hope you enjoy them as much. And I still manage to party and have fun with men - I am sure you will too!
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a passion for writing has common denominators on 2008-03-28 15:34:02 |
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I sometimes have the best thoughts after a couple of glasses of wine but have found that I just can't write after drinking so I take notes of my "brilliant alcohol-induced" thoughts and write about them the next day.
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oh well, I guess I will have to sleep in! on 2008-03-28 15:31:18 |
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That was great, Roe!
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Wants and don't wants on 2008-03-28 15:26:37 |
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Wow - that was really moving. When I read it, I thought of "my" Brian. (Move, on Meredith - I know!) Like bullseye, I hope you get everything you want.
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Ohhh Boy has it been that long? on 2008-03-28 13:34:46 |
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I see the blog category KP and Whiteknight - I am going to read your entire story now!
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Ohhh Boy has it been that long? on 2008-03-28 13:32:57 |
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Ok, I might be a little behind, but a "Thoughts" romance? That is absolutely awe inspiring. So happy for you!
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FOTY really won't learn... will he!? on 2008-03-28 13:25:46 |
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I think FOTY was incredibly selfish to allow his disappointment that Miss 8 did not want to meet JS to show. On the other hand, Whitenknight is right that eventually they will have to meet. Hopefully, he will spend time with the kids without her even after they are married, although time with all four of them together cannot be avoided. What a tough situation! I wish I had some words of wisdom.
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She’s just not that into me on 2008-03-28 10:05:58 |
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EasytoSay - I spend LOTS of time with myself and have no problem with it. (I live alone and don't go out everynight or anything.) But I don't want to spend ALL of my time with myself! Meetup is a good way to meet people who have similar interests. I like a nice balance of "alone" time, time with friends, and time with men. The latter is the most difficult - at least men I like :)
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Thoughts Vs. MySpace… on 2008-03-27 16:17:07 |
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Even though I had friends on Myspace, I only joined myself to start blogging. I noticed that no-one really comments on each other's blogs on Myspace except "friends". The people on Thoughts are so interactive and supportive and I can sincerely say that in the one month I have been a member, I have grown to actually care about some of the people. It's really a special place. I am not telling any of my "real" friends about it - it's my secret :) By the way, I have friends and family in the real world who "abandon" me from time to time as well. They always come back and so will yours. Have faith.
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Ten things guys should learn on 2008-03-27 16:09:06 |
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I especially liked No. 6 since I went away with a guy who pretty much ignored me around his friends. At 38 years old, he should have known better! Nice blog.
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She’s just not that into me on 2008-03-27 12:29:05 |
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It is true - if it was a guy, I would assume "ok, it was nice while it lasted but I guess he lost interest" and move on. Why should I give a "friend" (especially someone I just met) more credit? Prelude2it - if we lived in the same city, I would love to hang out on one of your Girls Night Out meetups!
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They were making love, the first time on 2008-03-27 11:47:12 |
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That was hot! (I think I need to re-stock on some batteries myself....)
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A First Date .... A success on 2008-03-27 11:42:52 |
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Glad you had fun! That movie theater sounds awesome by the way. I don't think any theaters in NYC have waiter service!
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Social Experiment No.1 on 2008-03-27 11:40:23 |
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"Me" time is great. I like to order in some sushi, buy a bottle of wine and watch the series finale of Sex and the City over and over again. Have fun!
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Ditched for the ditcher on 2008-03-27 11:38:06 |
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Let me know how it goes. I am currently friends with an ex and, while I am attempting to move on, I still have feelings for him that go beyond friendship. Not sure it will work. I think as long as you are not fooling yourself into thinking it is just friendship but you really want more than that, it might work. Good luck!
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Omagoodness!!! on 2008-03-26 17:21:01 |
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You and your friends sound fun - kind of like the way my friends and I get when we are together - just silly! Maybe people outside of your circle don't talk to you because you and your friends are so close and they are afraid of being "rejected". People used to tell me that I was cliquey and that, before they got to know me, they thought that I didn't want to be friends with anyone outside of my own group. You never know. GO MEAT!
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Don’t even ask on 2008-03-26 16:29:01 |
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I enjoyed that blog as well and could almost picture you and your husband having that conversation. Very cute. Thanks for sharing.
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Jodan's Edge on 2008-03-26 16:17:35 |
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beautiful.
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Fat guy in a headlock on 2008-03-26 16:11:57 |
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Once again, your post made me laugh out loud. I have to remember not to drink water while reading one because I have already ruined quite a few keyboards at work.
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Is this just my pet peeve or....... on 2008-03-26 15:51:49 |
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I agree with you. The principal should have called you Mr. Edwards until you offered "Call me Dwight". I don't like how "casual" everything has become either and hope the pendulum swings the other way at least with respect to certain things.
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tell you what I want what I really really want on 2008-03-26 10:39:08 |
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Roe - That was truly beautiful. My favorite parts - to catch him looking at you lovingly when he thinks you aren't looking, winking across the room, and the combination of time together and time apart. I loved it.
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Dr. Wrong on 2008-03-26 10:21:29 |
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I am going to find that blog about the midget and read it ASAP. I have been on enough blind dates to star in my own reality show, but never with a midget.
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Discrimination Against the Single on 2008-03-26 10:20:11 |
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Roe - I would love to read that story!
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Free to be me and me on 2008-03-25 12:09:27 |
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Thanks to all for your good wishes! I am always afraid to get excited about a guy because I fear I will jinx it - silly, I know. For now, I am still taking it one date at a time but it does feel great to not have to wonder if he likes me or not. As per my other posts, the last guy was not nearly as forthcoming with his emotions. Dating should be fun, not work (at least at first) and so far, I am having FUN.
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Why I love being 30 (and single) on 2008-03-25 11:47:10 |
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I dreaded turning 30 but, the truth is, even though I had tons of fun in my 20s, I am more comfortable in my own skin now than I ever have been before and it just keeps getting better. Although I hope I am no longer single when I enter my 40s, I am enjoying this time in my life and it seems like you are as well. Keep up the positive outlook!
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Easter ... without FOTY on 2008-03-25 11:09:54 |
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I have never been married (or divorced) but my father left us when I was 4 and I do remember, even in the best of times, wishing he was there. I am sorry that your children have to go through what my sisters and I did but I have to say, once again, that Miss 8 seems like one heck of a kid and you should be VERY proud!
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Woo Fucking Hoo!!! on 2008-03-24 13:25:47 |
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Good luck! Hope you have fun. If it doesn't turn into anything, at least you will have gotten that "first date" over with. After that, it will be easy to get back into the dating scene.
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What's happened to the clothing industry? on 2008-03-24 13:13:56 |
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I totally agree - I hate buying shorts because everything in my waste size is so friggin short. In order to find a pair that is a decent length, I have to go up 3 sizes and then the shorts fall off! Totally annoying...
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Type Schmype on 2008-03-23 20:05:33 |
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Thank you! He was even better after date 3. Blog to come!
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The Anti-Brian on 2008-03-22 13:13:55 |
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Thank you for your optimism, Templar_knight! And, Colorado, I agree that moving on leaves us free to find the right person. I am totally looking forward to finding the right person for me. But why does the thought of him finding the right girl for him (not me), still make me physically ill??
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The ugly gift aftermath on 2008-03-21 14:51:50 |
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Your posts always make me laugh out loud. I picture you and your husband running to the door, leaving the flamingo on the porch and running back, laughing all the way. I hope when I eventually get married, I have as much fun as you seem to have with your husband and family. It's an inspiration. Have a wonderful holiday.
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He hasnt called on 2008-03-21 13:21:07 |
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Glad I could help - good luck!
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He hasnt called on 2008-03-21 10:51:31 |
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Angelwings - I feel your pain. I have been there - when my life seems to revolve around the next phone call (or even email) from a guy. You need to keep yourself busy doing the things that YOU enjoy and try to stop focusing so much energy on when he will call. He WILL but you can't control when just by wanting it so much. And, you are right, he probably DOES know you aren't going anywhere and might be taking you for granted. Keep yourself busy so perhaps when he does call, you will be too busy to pick up the phone. THAT will make him nervous!
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Dark Side on 2008-03-21 10:46:29 |
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Great post. I find it hard to believe that there are people out there who have never done something which might be construed as "bad" at the time. We are all human and humans are full of imperfections. (And, anyway, saints are boring!)
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The Anti-Brian on 2008-03-20 10:31:44 |
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Pitapie50 - you are not being mean and, in fact, are right on the money as far as Brian being aloof. I guess I thought if I was "better", I could get him to warm up to me but, to be honest, I don't think he'd even warm up to Angelina Jolie! And Prelude2it, I feel the same way sometimes when I read your posts - lots of similarities. I don't think either of us should have to change who we are to make things work. If we were meant to be with our respective Brians, it probably wouldn't be so much work. Thanks to all for the comments and for making me feel less "needy"!
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Being old and dating.... on 2008-03-19 17:22:58 |
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I just caught up on your posts - I like them. Any dates lately?!
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A Break From Self on 2008-03-18 18:22:40 |
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I agree - great blog. The person in the world who should like you the most is yourself. Good luck!
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Kitchen mishap meatloaf anyone? on 2008-03-18 16:37:00 |
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At least it was YOUR fingernail and not some strangers - my family once ordered a pizza pie and found a cap from a tooth in it! Needless to say, we never ordered pizza from that particular place again. Anyway, thanks for the laugh - it gave me the second wind I needed to get back to work!
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Super Couple Status on 2008-03-18 15:53:36 |
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Will do! I just hope that WHEN I find him, I won't be too blind to SEE him.
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I'm finally getting there but it's hard on 2008-03-18 15:25:48 |
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I feel your pain. I think you know that you did the right thing. When the pain heals, you will be open to so much more happiness. You are a strong and brave woman and, as everyone before me said, you will not find the right guy while you continue to reserve your heart for the wrong one.
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No Mistress, But down in the bleachers! on 2008-03-16 13:02:20 |
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You should be so proud of yourself for the way you handled everything and especially proud of that daughter of yours! She is a reflection of the mother who is raising her!
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Random Thoughts on 2008-03-14 16:32:11 |
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I think counseling is a good start. You can express your concerns in front of a non-biased party. Hopefully, that will help you get your relationship where you want it to be. He's obviously really important to you and makes you happy in so many ways but that does not mean that you should settle for less than you really need from him (or any man). Although I am not in the situation, I would see what happens with counseling and take it from there. Good luck!
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I’m A Dream Whore… on 2008-03-14 14:39:34 |
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I hope my dreams are as interesting when I go to sleep tonight! I could use some action, even if it is only in my dreams.
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The wedding, the ex & the girlfriend on 2008-03-14 14:13:03 |
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I hope your (almost) ex. does the right thing. I need to read your old blogs to get the full story here but it appears that he put you through a lot of pain. The fact that you are willing to not only go to his mother's wedding but also be the photographer says a lot about you. Stay strong.
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New Friends on 2008-03-14 13:53:13 |
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I agree that the people on Thoughts appear to be very special. I blog on other sites and this is the only one where people really take the time to comment on each other's entries, give advice, reassurance etc. I, too, am happier since I joined! Best wishes right back at you!
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happy bday 2 me... on 2008-03-14 13:50:14 |
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Happy Birthday to you.
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Oh No, He Did-Int! on 2008-03-13 17:22:13 |
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Thanks so much, Whitters. Glad you liked the blog!
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Is that a cookie or a cow patty? on 2008-03-12 11:34:27 |
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Funny blog! What about the cookie dough that comes ready made in a cylinder? You just slice it into appropriate "cookie size" and put it in the toaster oven. Pretty difficult to mess up.
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I'm just not that into him on 2008-03-11 11:05:26 |
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"It'd be a lot easier if we could just flip a switch and be attracted to people who were nice though" - yes, it certainly would!
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Misunderstandings on 2008-03-10 21:16:34 |
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It sounds like you are learning to communicate your feelings to him. I think that is a good thing. Your feelings, whatever they are, are valid. Never feel bad about them.
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thpppppbbbbbbbb on 2008-03-10 21:12:34 |
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You didn't order your couches through Jennifer Leather, did you? They sucked - I eventually had to file a complaint with the Better Busines Bureau when they delivered a glass coffee table to me three times and the glass was chipped. I never ended up getting the table - just my money back. Anyway, I hope your dog is ok and that you got out of the house for creamer. I can't drink my coffee without it either!
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here is your hat, what is your hurry on 2008-03-08 18:36:40 |
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that was friggin hilarious and I needed a good laugh on this rainy Saturday. Thx.
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Still moving on on 2008-03-07 15:37:44 |
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Thanks, guys. Date number 2 is next week - looking forward to it. Does anyone know why this post would be labeled as having "explicit content"? Is it because I used the word "shit"?? I can't think of anything "explicit" about it.
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Better Alone than with the Wrong Person on 2008-03-06 18:43:25 |
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You hit the nail on the head with that one! Relationships are going to be work but BOTH people have to be doing the work and the rewards should be well worth the efforts put forth.
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Last Night on 2008-03-06 18:36:25 |
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I definitely think it is important to do your own thing even when part of a relationship. That way, there are aspects of your life that make you happy that have nothing to do with your partner and, if for whatever reason, things don't work out in your relationship, you have so many other things that keep you going. Plus, from my experience, when you pull away, the man starts making more effort. Good luck.
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Eng 96 Blog 2: Friendship on 2008-03-05 18:10:36 |
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I like how you mentioned that friends don't always serve the same purpose (some help you with family issues, other for "boy" problems, others to just have fun, etc.) So true. Some friends are brought into your life for a purpose and, even if the friendship did not last forever, the influence the friend had on your life at the time stays with you.
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Blog 3: This one girl i know on 2008-03-05 18:01:15 |
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I got the chills from your last line when I realized you were referring to your mother. That is awesome. I love my mom too :)
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Knox Vegas on 2008-03-05 16:15:09 |
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I empathize with the getting tired by midnight comment - I used to stay out until dawn drinking to my heart's content and loving every minute. Now I feel so old that, if a bar is standing room only (no bar stools, tables etc.), I go someplace else! I like your posts - you tell it like it is - and I have just requested you as a friend - hope you will accept.
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I NEED ADVICE! if you read this please give me som on 2008-03-05 11:54:09 |
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LpnMom94 - I know your comment was directed to the poster of the blog but I would like to say that it really hit a personal note with me and a relationship I am in (were dating and are now attempting a friendship). For what it's worth - thanks.
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obsessed on 2008-03-05 10:59:06 |
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Are you sure your obession is really about your weight? Usually eating disorders stem from elsewhere - control issues. I had an eating disorder in high school because I was pretty miserable and thought my weight was the only thing I could control. I don't know what to tell you but I hope you can learn to appreciate your hour glass figure - I am sure others do :)
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Dr. Wrong on 2008-03-05 10:17:46 |
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That is priceless!! If I get enough guts, perhaps I will try it someday.
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Oh No, He Did-Int! on 2008-03-05 10:15:43 |
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And dating an 18 year old at my ripe old age of 36? Yikes!
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Twenty-something impressions on 2008-03-05 09:52:57 |
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I wish I had been so wise - I would have saved myself many hangovers....
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I'm just not that into him on 2008-03-05 09:51:25 |
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Thank you for your comment! For some reason, I feel the need for reassurance that it is ok not to like someone if he liked me and there is no real reason NOT to like him. But, like you, I need the spark.
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Brain Blabber on 2008-03-04 20:33:51 |
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Your post gave me the chills. Nice job.
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When's My Turn ? on 2008-03-04 20:30:26 |
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Damn straight!
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When's My Turn ? on 2008-03-04 16:41:30 |
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Chin up - it will happen when it is right. I am in the same position. But remember, being single is better than being with the wrong person or with someone for the wrong reasons.
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There are friends and then there are FRIENDS! on 2008-03-04 12:25:22 |
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My friends can definitely be grouped into categories - 1) Closest friends - the ones who know everything about me and with whom I speak on a regular basis, 2) the "casual" friends - I socialize with them pretty regularly but probably would not turn to them in a crisis, 3) the old friends who I love dearly but speak to infrequently due to distance or just differences in our lives (college roommates, friends from grammar school etc.) and the list goes on. Thought provoking post!
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