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It's about to be a beat down up in this camp. 

I'm not kidding I'm about to make an example out of every little kid in that God forsaken boys & girls club.

Here's the scoop:

I pick up Kaylie after work.  Walk out to the playground like I do every afternoon.  She comes running up, something's different.

"Kaylie, where are you glasses?" Hoping that she simply took them off so they wouldn't get broken.

"They're broken"

"How'd they get broken?"

"Erin & Jasmin broke them"

"Why did you let them have them?  Didn't we tell you not to let your friends have your glasses?"

"Erin took them off my face"

"Why did you let her take them?"

"I don't know"

The walk back to her cubby was not fun.  I was scowling at her out of the corner of my eye, she just kept staring at the floor.

Needless to say the ride home wasn't fun for her either.  I basically chewed her ass the entire way to my mom's.

I managed to get out of her that she figured it would be okay since they weren't actually wearing  her glasses.  So she gave them to them and watched while they threw them and stepped on them.  When asked why she did it all she could say was because she wanted them to like her.

Okay seriously I'm sick of this shit.  To the point I can't fucking see straight.  It would be different if this was the first problem arising from the illustrious ghetto ass and redneck fucking kids with NO damn common sense at the boys & girls club, but it's not.  It's come down to my mom and dad telling me to find out how much Grace Baptist academy and Sacred Heart Cathedral cost.  When I told them I couldn't afford it they told me to look anyway they would pay.  Well fuck that the sperm donor will have to pay half of it I'll take him back to court.

Now herein lies the problem as I see it.  Kaylie hasn't had problem's at school.  I figure it's because the kids at school have more common sense and aren't half as evil (obviously).  Why should I take her out of a school that she loves and has friends at.  All because of the after-school care?  I know that you all are saying "Why not just switch after-schol?"  Well because I can't afford the others and chance are they don't pick up at her school.

My other question:  What in the hell is wrong with the parents whose kids go to the boys & girls club?  Do they not instill common sense, courtesy, and caring into these little hellions?  Like I've said before...some people should never be allowed to procreate.  It's like an entire school of skin heads.

I obviously need to hire Kaylie a full-time body guard.  It's either that or I go to the boys & girls club and start beating some kids' asses.  Obviously these parents don't believe in spanking, I do, I have no problem showing you how it's done.

I'm so freakin irritated about all this.  Kaylie hasn't had those glasses for a week and already let her little "friends" break them.  My mom's taking them today to see if they can repair them.  Here's hoping they can since that was a $300 pair of glasses.

"Come over to the dark side, we have candy"


Posted by Mamacita925 on 2008-05-06 09:02:14 | Rating: n/a | Views: 103


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Posted by
pitapie50
on 2008-05-06 09:10:05
 
Good grief I totally understand. Just the fact that those girls did that makes me want to throttle them. Any recourse of going to the girls parents?

The same thing had happened to a neighbor of mine when my kids were small. Her daughter purposely broke a classmates eye glasses, she had to pay for a new pair.

On possibly changing her school, thats a tough one. Especially since she has friends and is happy there.

I really don't know what is the matter with some parents. I know when my kids were small, some of the parents I met, needed a "big clue", or a swift kick. Just reliving some of those old memories ticks me off.
 
 

Posted by
Mamacita925
on 2008-05-06 09:16:59
 
pita - my mom's going to pick her up today and find out the names of the parents to make them pay for them. She doesn't want me to do it cause I tend to fly off the handle...lol I know shocking right?!?! lol
 
 

Posted by
pitapie50
on 2008-05-06 09:29:44
 
I wouldn't blame you one bit. When it comes to our kids, it doesn't matter how old they get. When they have been wronged, Mama bears going to come out and kick some ass! I can understand how ticked off you are. I was getting angry just reading about those two creepy girls breaking Kaylies glasses.
 
 

Posted by
luckyluci
on 2008-05-06 09:30:49
 
You need to go find the parents...and they need to pay for your daughter's glasses...oh mama...you got me pissed off now too...that is bullshit...did you talk to the teachers or staff or whoever is there? It's their fault...they don't see what's going on? where do you live? I'm coming over!
 
 

Posted by
Mamacita925
on 2008-05-06 09:34:28
 
Luci - Well I couldn't get the whole story out of Kaylie until we were in the car on the way home. Yea they have teachers but they're all highschool students and could give less of a damn. Come on luci you're always welcome!!
 
 

Posted by
BlueMoonInMyEye
on 2008-05-06 09:43:54
 
Poor kid. Some kids can be so cruel. And I totally agree they need an ass-kicking. And their parents. Give 'em hell, Mamacita. And start Kaylie on a diet of red meat only and tell her to punch for the nose next time.
 
 

Posted by
prelude2it
on 2008-05-06 09:46:35
 
I think the same thing, you should have the parents pay for them. They should also discipline their kids. I understand Kaylie, I was like that as a kid. Not to worry, you get harder with life.
 
 

Posted by
Mamacita925
on 2008-05-06 10:47:28
 
Blue - the one thing I have to say the kid didn't get from me is my fiesty-ness...I would have had the kids in the corner begging me to leave em alone....

Prelude - Either the parents will pay for them or I'll take it out of their ass!
 
 

Posted by
anotherdaze
on 2008-05-06 11:53:28
 
You have to understand your child is most likely afraid to get on the other kids bad side. Kids are out of control. And there are plenty of parents that think it is cute. They can and will make her life a living hell. So try not to come down too hard on her. If you looking for another school option try K12.com I don't know if it available in your area. It is a public charter school that is free. Online learning. It is working for us. If you want more info just email me. I have been through the ringer with other kids and the way they run schools in my area!
 
 

Posted by
Mamacita925
on 2008-05-06 12:10:00
 
anotherdaze - I would if I didn't have to work fulltime. I couldn't homeschool and work 50 plus hours a week. It's not possible for me stay at home, I don't get that luxury.
 
 

Posted by
Meredith
on 2008-05-06 16:40:29
 
That is just so awful - your poor kid. And I agree, what kind of parents raise children to bully other kids? Those parents should pay for the glasses their children broke. I would suggest talking to their parents but that could make things worse. Truly sorry that your daughter has to deal with this.
 
 

Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-05-07 02:36:09
 
Mama - after you've calmed down, I'd suggest you be really "Smart" about your approach... take the nicely nicely approach and get the teachers in your confidence / on your side ... tell them how important it is that they look after your daughter like she was their own.
I would also try to speak to the other parents and firstly do it parent to parent and ask them how they'd feel, and how their children need to start being responsible for their actions.
Then if that all doesn't work - let me know - KP and I will fly out on the next plane... and I'll bring Miss 8 and Master 5 with me and they can go to school with your baby girl and Miss 8 can use her karate and Master 5 will just use his standard "just-a-Boy" methods on them!
Then we will see who's laughing!!

Made me made to read about that, hope you sort it out Soon.
 
 

Posted by
KP
on 2008-05-07 07:04:35
 
Ohhh how I feel I reading my own story here. The same happened to Miss 9 for me (at the time she was 5). And her glasses got broken in just the same way. After the inital anger, ad after I had calmed down. I went back and spkoe with the kinder and asked for a meeting to be arranged with the other parents. Long story short, Not only did the parents pay for a new pair of glass, but so did they kinder, because of thier neglect to care for my child. So I was able to get two pairs of glasses, a good pair and a cheaper pair for kinder and school. And the kinder also promised me that they would sit down and talk to the children about this.

And since then no more problems.

I guess what I am trying to say is, stay calm and things will work out. Not only spek to the parents but you lso need to speak with te supervisor of the after school care, some one has to be accountable for not ensuring duty of care for Kaylie

Good Luck
 
 

Posted by
Mamacita925
on 2008-05-07 08:57:16
 
Easy & KP - I think a good 'ol ozzie beating would be lovely!! Me snapping is the very reason why my mom went and picked her up...she knows I have quite the short temper so she figured it best!
 
 

Posted by
Mandie142
on 2008-05-07 17:25:54
 
I'm packing my bags & heading down. I'm not gonna let those kids pick on poor Kaylie anymore! That just pisses me off that these little brats did that to her! Ohhhh, I'm steaming, so I could just imagine how angry you are.

Now what kind of attire should I wear for my bodyguard duties? Hmmm...
 
 


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