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I just got off the phone with one of my friends and she's broken up with yet another one.

I don't get it.

If you say you "love" someone, how is it that you can go through many relationships. I can guarantee it wont be long before she's in yet another relationship.

My theory?

While I enjoy being single (which I do). I enjoy being in relationships.

People aren't perfect by any stretch of the imagination. I don't claim to be, I don't expect the person I'm with to be either. It's human nature to screw up once in awhile. All I ask is when you do, admit you're wrong and then we can move on. Otherwise time together is spent proving the other's fault.

My question is how can you be so "deeply in love" with one person, and move on so quickly. You don't even have to be in love, maybe it's just deep like. It's still an emotion. I've watched her go through so many relationships that she's sworn were "the one" and just a few months later, that person's gone and there's another prospect. It doesn't make sense to me.

Maybe it's just me though, my hearts not made like that. I can't cheat. If I even thought about it I would be so riddled with guilt about the thought even crossing my mind.

There was one point in my life that I would stay with people even when I didn't want to. I would be fed up with the relationship, but wouldn't want to break it off. So I would sabatoge the relationship to the point that they would have to break up with me. Which would leave me broken hearted. Ironic huh?

On the flip side, if I was dating someone who was good to me, or they seemed to be getting too close...I would find a fault. No matter how miniscule it was. I would stew on it until it picked me apart. It would always be stupid things. They chewed their food funny, or the breathed heavily. Something asenine.

I have however grown out of that. Thank God cause my life was going to be miserable if I kept on that way. I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you think they should, doesn't mean they don't love you with everything they have.

In my opinion the human heart has the capability to love only one person at a time. That's not including the love for your child. But the love for a partner. I don't understand how people can have multiple relationships at the same time. I don't find it humanly possibly for the heart to do that. But like I said myabe that's just me.

So the plus side of all of this.....

This girl actually has a date!! Woot woot....wish me luck!!