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Why is it so hard to say these easy simple words "I love you"??
I need to say this, I want to say this... But I almost feel the words stuck in my throat... and they aren't going to come out.
Why is it so hard to talk about my feelings??
I feel a lot to him, I can write about this... But I can't speak...

He has already made a declaration of love... And it was an unforgetable moment for me.
But he feels hurt that I don't answer...
I love him, that's what I feel. All those butterflies, all that trust and respect, myself melting in his arms, missing him strongly...
If I don't say "i love you", does it mean I don't love???

I've read some advices recently... And they identified two possible problems.
The first is that I can't say this because I am not sure. But when I'm alone I feel myself capable to express everything, to describe my feelings and not to fear anything... Nevertheless when I am next to him, all words are somewhere far away, my head is blank and I don't know what to do.
The second version is that I am afraid of being misunderstood, of trusting someone, of choosing the wrong moment... Or the lack of self-confidence, inability to love yourself, therefore him. But where has this fear come from?? I haven't noticed it.

Oh, why is it so damn hard?????

    Posted by LuckyJulia on 2008-11-18 06:14:23 | Rating: | Views: 106
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Those word entail a huge risk and should never be used lightly. I wouldn't worry over their lack of use, if they're reall then in time they will come out.
Posted by  Tony51203  on 2008-11-18 10:15:02 
  
It IS hard, Julia. It's hard to take a risk in love and if you've been hurt before, you cannot help but be guarded and careful. Relax and enjoy the moments with this man who obviously loves you. If he truly loves you, he will take things slowly and not push, but you must confide your feelings of apprehension, as well. Good luck. Great post.
Posted by  Ellie2008  on 2008-11-18 13:44:00 
  
I think it's wonderful that you "feel" the love even if, for whatever reason, you can't seem to get the words out. I bet they will come out when you least expect them to. Try not to put so much pressure on yourself.
Posted by  meredith  on 2008-11-18 14:09:02 
  
Thank you for your comments.

Tony51203, I hope so.

Ellie2008, yes, he really loves me. It is obvious and can be seen with the naked eye :) I'm so happy with him!

Meredith, thank you. I hope it'll be like you've said.
Posted by  LuckyJulia  on 2008-11-19 07:53:58 
  
I hope it comes out soon. The words will come out when they have to. Maybe you can try showing him that you love him with small thoughtful acts? But in the end, do what your heart tells you to. Don't worry too much! :)
Posted by  HardThinker  on 2008-11-20 09:58:11 
  
Thank you, HardThinker!
Well, I agree, it seems it's not the time yet...
Posted by  LuckyJulia  on 2008-11-22 18:40:16 
  
Well, it's obvious your problem is the latter of the two. The kinds of words in the first two paragraphs, which read like poetry, to me, don't come from a heart that isn't in love. Love like this is very heard to express, especially if you've ever been hurt in love.
Posted by  MyGallimaufry  on 2009-05-11 19:57:10 
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