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Well I can't say that I have walked a mile in your shoes, but sad as it may be I will say this.
We all make mistakes and four years ain't that long. I have been in unhealthy relationships and it's a safe bet that it will probably get worse. Counseling may help if he is open to it but is that the case?
If he is low enough to say those things to your children behind your back, he will probably still make degrading and derogatory comments even if you stay together. It's a lack of respect.
It is your right to be happy. Life, liberty and the pursuit of... Not selfishly so but you know what I mean. Why should you suffer and be stifled on a daily basis. As well as you may hide it, your children will grow older and unless things change, recognize the relationship for what it is. Unloving and unhealthy.
Leaving hardly makes you a selfish bitch who ignores her family and obligations. Quite the opposite. If the relationship is that bad it may be the most loving thing you could do for your children, removing them from that environment.
I am not advocating divorce by any means, as I said counseling may provide answers. I am just offering a little support and another viewpoint.
As far as the cheating mentioned in your other blog goes I agree with you, it is playing with fire. I think if it gets to that point it is wrong and you should not do it.
Be strong and good luck. (posted in
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Hi,
I have not taken xanax but I am an addict too. I was addicted to alcohol, marajuana, cocaine and speed.
The first two for nearly 25 years. The second two for five years and they completely destroyed my life.
I have been clean for three and a half years and everything is different now.
The main thing I learned is the drugs were never really the problem. They were merely a symptom. The problem was me and my thinking. I was never comfortable in my own skin and the drugs helped me supress those feelings.
I don't know what troubles you but as others have mentioned programs like AA and NA could be of help. I found I met a bunch of people who had never met me, yet knew me better than I knew myself. Addicts tend to have a lot of the same traits. Those programs provide a loving environment that can help you resolve some of the core issues that may be troubling you.
You can find meetings in your area on the internet if you are interested.
Anyway, I have already said a prayer for you and will continue to pray for you. Be strong and keep hope.
Recovery is possible.
Peace (posted in
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I spent 40 years refusing to let anybody know the real me and I was depressed too. We are not alone in our suffering, nor in our pain. My willingness to be vulnerable and expose myself has set me free. Contemplate life my friend. I'm glad you're here. (posted in
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