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 A Great Night Out, now do I go?
So went to see 'Cookie Baker' an awsome local singer (album pending, so waiting for it, should be out anytime now) with Her. Was a great night, awesome music, pleanty to drink, great little place called the Tin Cat Cafe very nice atmosphere. Also more contact then I should have had and no where near as much as I wanted! was a rather cold night and She was leaning back against me and holding my arm around Her and on the taxi trip home I held Her her hand for a moment to ask Her something and when I let go She took it back for the rest of the ride.. of course she was also talking bout the places She'd been looking to move into with Him.. so ya I'm confuzzled on that one. Either way I enjoyed the music..

She also asked me if I wish to drive to brisbane with Her and Her uncle next month, now the bf wont be going as He could not handle a car ride that long due to a neck injury He has, and more interesting is it will be over Her birthday.

So yes I want to go, but should I.. I don't know, the drive plus a few days there then fly back.. a week with Her. Sure that worked in Feb, but as everybody who's been reading this blog know my feelings are somewhat differant now.
    Posted by Long on 2008-06-23 05:02:57 | Rating: | Views: 113
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Dont get used, Long....dont fall deeper than you already have. I know what being with her does to you....just be careful.
If you ask me, i'll say dont do it. And if u want me to be really honest, tell her honestly why you dont want to go...although you do want to spend time with her. He doesnt make her happy, make her see that. Tell her how you feel...
Posted by  angelwings  on 2008-06-23 05:24:49 
  
Sounds like it could be a very interesting ride my friend....Think long and hard on it before making any final decision....I'll always have a 'listenin ear' for you....Good Luck!SK
Posted by  lastblastkl  on 2008-06-24 08:03:03 
  
Thanks Angel & SuperK.

As it is when I went to ask Her about it, She told me they got the house they were looking at renting and would need to move in at the time the drive would be, but She'd still like to go.

Now being me and comming to a few quick conslusions asked "Are you sure you really want to be leaving Him to move Your stuff? Think about who your talking about!"

I had to bite my lip (literally) in the attempt not to laugh as the thought crossed Her mind and a slight expression of panic formed on Her face.

She called Her Uncle during the lunch break to tell him she wont be able to go :P

Problem solved..

was that a nasty thing to do?
Posted by  Long  on 2008-06-25 04:51:01 
  
Nah...all's fair in love and war ;) Besides, you had a valid point!!!
Posted by  angelwings  on 2008-06-26 02:01:32 
  
Nah that was a great way to handle it... smooth and honest
Posted by  DouglasMB  on 2008-06-26 10:06:46 
  
Hey Long, not at all, maybe she needs to be pointed out a few things.

Agree with Angel too, don't let her use you. If you are comfortable with things, then good. But if you are not, make sure you do it on your terms.

You don't wanna be that NICE friend forever .... watching from a distance.
Posted by  EasyToSay  on 2008-07-07 17:42:49 
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