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balanced or unbalanced..

about loving either with a reason or without one, either for a seflish reason or not..even thought it involves selfishness....

when you care about your self, need to care the same about respecting yourself, your dignity and what you value..

and to keep this you may feel humiliated and in the same time protected.. and valued...

and so if people lose themselves by losing respecting you, you either "respect" yourself and give up on them so they end up giving up on you... or "respect" yourself and keep your relationship the same as always.. or might you realize that you havent done much or at an end so you can hope as you do more for there is no law for hoping...and no law to stop you from keeping a relationship tied..

any relationship holds your dignity not as a hostage but as part of it and it made the realationship grow and realationship made your dignity grow too...

so giving up that relationship means giving up part of your dignity too...or say sacrificing not only the memories but also the dignity...

each person in this world needs to humiliate himself to keep a relationship either its for a self reason or a total sacrifice..
men humiliate themselves even a little when they accept women who even their care to men is out of their love to themselves, even their sacrifices envolves selfishness, so you can never say that a morning has nothing with a night... if there was no night time there wouldnt be a morning...a whole noon time will stay ..
so is with humiliating yourself to save your dignity and selfrespect...
you need to try that or just realize what you really do to understand this...
its just like when someone moarns for another person even if its for the other it still remains for a selfish reason...
matryres cannot do something without a selfish reason...
and going back to a person who chose to put more value for their dreams than "their" love to you is not a negative thing if you know the way to put value to yourself...
Im not saying that there arent any worthless men in this world like the alcoholics or gamblers but even them trying to fix them is a duty must be done for the sake of ones self...ones home and country...

so:

value what you want to value more than you think is enough..and you will be more valued than you beleive you are worth it..and give up when you want to be given up..

and remember:
as you love with no reason and hate with a reason you can criticise the world when they love you for a reason or hate you with no reason
and:
...if you arent reasonable so you better expect unreasonable occurances which makes you lose...
and to keep things try it reasonably for reason wins even against love...while love wins against it too...

last lets say:
falling with love is like falling by it or against it

... loving yourself makes you fall just like the love of anybody that makes you lose...

..so be....strong willed, fair and far ahead looking....