It's flirting when you have gone out of your way to make contact with the person. Everything is, to me, is just being friendly/fun.

Hmm good points. But can one not be friendly/fun/ and joke around without it being construed as flirting?! Thankyou for your thoughts.

Hmmmmmm is getting my meat out and doin' a 'wipper snipper' considered flirting ?????

Oh and your second question .......

I am currently perplexed on the topic, because apparently I am a "flirt" but I have no idea what I am doing! - Their wrong, Your a slag !!!

Damn ...... Did I just say that out loud .....

Flirting tends to be when physical contact is made. Body language signals. If you don't wanta flirt, don't touch the guy, ever; don't sit really close with your legs crossed towards him. Even look away occasionally so he doesn't think your really into him. Believe me, when a guy wants to believe a girl likes him, he will find a way to believe it. The only thing you can do is make it very difficult for him.

SaM