Posted by
Mamacita925
on 2007-12-22 09:14:51 |
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| #1-It takes alot to admit that you can't take care of a baby. Alot of girls don't and get themselves into situations they can't get out of. I wasn't sure I wanted my daughter when she was born..hell I was in no way ready for a child, but now I couldn't imagine my life without her. I stayed withher dad only because of her..I wouldn't wish that on anyone. Don't force a relationship, you're right, if it's meant to be it will be, if not then God obviously has something better in mind for the both of you. Put it in his hands. Good Luck to you and Merry Christmas |
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Posted by
2ndchildhood
on 2007-12-22 10:02:13 |
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Despite your situation, you seem to have your head on straight! You have made the decision of what you are going to do IF you are pregnant, and you know not to force the relationship...both wise decisions.
I tend to freak out myself when I'm not sure of things, and finding out is the only thing that seems to help; then you at least know for sure, and can plan further from there.
Krazygirl, whatever happens you will be fine...you will find the right words to say IF you need to, and the answers will present themselves to you in due time.
I wish you the best, I hope that you have a Merry Christmas, and for heavens sake find out ASAP!!! :) |
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Posted by
Krazygirlk21
on 2007-12-22 19:56:19 |
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| thank you both for your kind words. I am only waiting to take a test because I am only a few days late, and I am hoping I will still get my period. |
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Posted by
Sprinkles
on 2007-12-22 20:45:54 |
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It does take guts to admit your not ready. I work with 3 teenage girls that are pregnant and they think everything is just great.
If you are actually pregnant don't stay with the father if you dan't want to. As Dr. Phil said so many times on his show, a child doesn't need to come into this world with a job. The job being to keep you two together.
Everything will be fine, you will get through this. |
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Posted by
Sprinkles
on 2007-12-22 20:48:29 |
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| And just to add to that, if you are not pregnant hopefully this will get you to think twice about having sex if your not ready. If you are not ready to care for a baby (emotionally, and financially), don't have sex. |
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Posted by
kateeyBBY
on 2007-12-24 23:00:05 |
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Like others have said, i think you should make sure you really are pregnant before you start getting worked up over it, it cant be good for you .. not eating right and bing so stressed.. especially near christmas..
all the best :)
x
also, what about an abortion?
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Posted by
Krazygirlk21
on 2007-12-26 04:16:56 |
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| I could never have an abortion. I won't kill my child because of a mistake that I made. |
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Posted by
PinkFariyDust85
on 2008-02-05 16:01:56 |
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| Hi Krazygirlk21 It is all your dission on weather or not you want to keep your baby and if you feel you can't right now there are many people out there that can not have children and want them I am one of those people I want to adopt and me and my husband have already started looking in to it we both want children so bad. A child is a blessing in so many ways and what ever your dission is good luck with it. I can't wait to get a child I think about it everyday. It takes a strong will person to take a step and hav it in there mind what they want to do in life. It is very hard to adopt a child and giving your baby up might be something you would regret in the long run. I would happily take any child in this world. Good luck Hun!! |
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