i have no control in anything but i am a child i guess... i hate that my parents dont get along, i hate that they dont talk things through properly, but they're still together. and they hate each other. try and keep trying to see your kids, a father is more important than anything to a child x

Everything will go smoothly.

I starting to understand some that are just caught in the middle. The true truth seems to come out when it's presented and the truth is we don't have control. Knowing that is pretty depressing.

i agree with virtualife, it is not easy to always be in control of your life. with the economy as it is, it makes it very hard to control anything actually. but, you are not alone. i'm sure it really is harsh to have to hire a lawyer, and you may have not wanted to do it... but you know what? you did it because you love you kids. that in itself deserves admiration by everyone. so give yourself a pat on the back, you want to be there, and you will do what you HAVE to. its out of love and compassion for your kids. not all children have that growing up, so just try to look on the bright side of every dark cloud.

I'm really trying shawn... sometimes life takes a swing and knocks you on your ass. I'm not saying i'm going to stay down for the count, but I do have til the count of ten and right now the ref is on one. Atleast that's how I feel atleast. I'm way too driven and passionate about giving my daughter a life I never had to let life defeat me. But boy this round.... life is kicking my ass.