I need someone who understands me and can be strong for me and no matter what i do, WILL NOT HAVE SEX WITH ME, i dont want that, though i give it, i hate it, i dont want to, i want to be able to be in a relationship for a coupple years and get married to them before having sex with them, and if they can help me acomplish that then, i know there the one. i mean, they gatta resist even when i throw myself at them, which i did and they ll ways cave in.........read "Rape" of my blogs if your confused.