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 Friends on 'thoughts'


No... I do not have a huge number of friends here on 'thoughts' in comparison to others here and for me, that's fine.    We are all different. If adding friends I try to get to know the person first. I take the time to read their blogs and comment when I feel the need to. Consequently when someone drops off my friends list.... I notice.


I admit that I am not an avid "IMer". Mainly, due to the fact that I often flit in and out of here... and don't have a great deal of time to really 'talk' with someone for as long as I would like too, and I would never want anyone to think I was rude. However in saying that, I love to drop an email to someone special.... and love to read those who email me or leave a note on my wall. 


I've read some interesting blogs here recently. I count all those on my friends list as just that.... friends. Some of you  share my life with me in other places and that, has made our friendship even more special. Although I don't often "chat" to many, the friendship is still ever present to me. Communication can take on many different forms.


That is why I always do and will continue to make my most personal blogs for 'friends only'. Because that is what all of you are.....
my friends. 



This place is more to me..... simply much more than a place to chat with people. Communication and friendship to me is so much more that an IM. It's getting to know someone... taking the time to understand them. Sharing, and actually taking time to read them. And more importantly taking the time to listen and....
to care.


Sometimes that is simply.....
what real friends are for.

xoxo
    Posted by Kaybee on 2009-10-30 21:59:34 | Rating: | Views: 237
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I tried attempting writing something like 3 times, but I'm like half awake right now. :D nice blog. Friends are good! :) And you're right you get to know them and you can meet someone new and find out everything about them. It's a good feeling! :)
Posted by  racquelkhalek  on 2009-10-30 22:13:06 
  
Hi racquel, thanks for stopping by :)
Posted by  Kaybee  on 2009-10-31 00:49:44 
  
Its great to make friends... always. =)
Posted by  Conflict  on 2009-10-30 22:15:38 
  
Hi conflict, I just like to know my people a little first. Hmmmm... scary face, but Happy Halloween! :)
Posted by  Kaybee  on 2009-10-31 00:51:28 
  
Nice read buddy!
Posted by  mtvonca  on 2009-10-30 22:23:18 
  
Thanks Mike! Good to see you my friend xo :)
Posted by  Kaybee  on 2009-10-31 00:52:06 
  
I count you among one of my closest Kare bear.

I'm not on nearly as much as I once was but I do my best to keep up with my friends.

That stupid friends list has got on my nerves since my first day here. I hate that we call perfect strangers friends and you've read my thoughts on it before.

We're friends because for almost two years now we've come to know each other, to laugh with each other, to hold each other up and sometimes carry each other. Friends, more than just an add.

you're my Kare bear:p and I love you for it:)
Posted by  tonyrayhutchison  on 2009-10-30 22:25:31 
  
Ditto Tony... ditto xo :)
Posted by  Kaybee  on 2009-10-31 00:49:03 
  
I enjoyed reading this post and feel the same way.
Thank you for sharing your sentiments about your friends.
Posted by  vestigesofhermind  on 2009-10-30 22:32:32 
  
Hi vesti...... boy thats long! You are welcome :)
Posted by  Kaybee  on 2009-10-31 00:53:25 
  
Heh, he used to call Katydids and Daisies something like that:P

Kaybee, you are comparing numbers when you clearly have 4 times the number I have added:P

It's not the quantity that matters but the quality.

I know you don't have much time, so I kept this short:P
Posted by  brainstormer  on 2009-10-31 00:00:43 
  
Stormy, I'm simply saying that dropping someone off a 'friends' list due to lack of IM's is not my idea of friendship.

And.... I always make time to communicate... even if not on IM. No, I wasn't here when you posted your comment, but thanks :)
Posted by  Kaybee  on 2009-10-31 00:47:48 
  
Nice read...It is your post and what makes you happy makes your friends happy. I do not do Im's very often for the on and off the computer reason, and not all people have time to leave everyone comments. There is not enough time in the day when your busy. Take care and I hope you have a great day.
Posted by  michelle8angels  on 2009-10-31 00:07:33 
  
Yes Lana, it is a time thing and sometimes the reality is, a priority thing too. Have a great weekend :)
Posted by  Kaybee  on 2009-10-31 00:57:31 
  
KB, I love reading about your life. You have been a good friend to me and a good listener. I don't IM often either but if someone needed me I would be there. I hope you are doing well. Take Care.
Posted by  prelude2it  on 2009-10-31 00:50:37 
  
Hi prelude..... it goes without saying between us two! You know me, and I'm always here in a heartbeat if you need me xo :)
Posted by  Kaybee  on 2009-10-31 01:00:13 
  
I'd like to think I'm on the list cause you're certainly on mine.
Posted by  overthehillandfar...  on 2009-10-31 04:10:44 
  
Of course you are E.... I hope you know how much I care and admire you, and your gorgeous family pics! xoxo :)
Posted by  Kaybee  on 2009-10-31 19:50:31 
  
It's funny, as I was thinking about this same thing before I came across your blog. I actually went through my list and paired it down again. It still has people on there that I let in and then never heard from again. Will have to continue to monitor that. This was a really nice blog and I am glad we have become friends. Will get to know each other better with time as well.
Posted by  Moxi  on 2009-10-31 10:54:31 
  
Hi Moxi. I still have a number of people on my list too that have suddenly gone AWOL! I'd like to think I could find them again if they ever venture back here.... which one already has. Life gets busy and things change, but it's great to find old friends again.

So glad I can call you my friend xo :)
Posted by  Kaybee  on 2009-10-31 19:52:47 
  
It is an honour to be a friend - love Puck
Posted by  puck  on 2009-10-31 15:36:10 
  
Thank you puck xo :)
Posted by  Kaybee  on 2009-10-31 19:53:11 
  
the ties you make here are so unexpected, yet so valued, for sure.. very valued :) xx
Posted by  lolav  on 2009-10-31 17:37:30 
  
I know what you mean Lola.... only those here can truly understand what can happen in this wonderful place of 'thoughts'. xo :)
Posted by  Kaybee  on 2009-10-31 19:54:09 
  
I am truly honoured to be numbered amongst your T.com friends, Kaybee. You are one of Thoughts true ladies with a beautiful heart and soul. =) - Love, Bia. xxx
Posted by  Blossom  on 2009-10-31 22:20:19 
  
I don't make friends easy either Kaybee, but I'm glad you're one of them, For an Oz chick You're ok:o) Sheesh with you and Easy in the same area code, maybe I hit the good part of Oz? :o)

Or I'm getting softer......:o)
Posted by  Waasyon  on 2009-11-01 01:55:44 
  
I am Happy to be your friend, both here and other places!!! Love ya :)
Posted by  DaisyConfused  on 2009-11-01 10:31:11 
  
I don't pay much attention to my friends list. Most of the people on there are complete strangers to me. I just can't say no when someone asks, cuz maybe they will turn out to be an actual friend (like you did!). I keep my REAL friends list in my heart :)
Posted by  BootLady  on 2009-11-04 07:50:08 
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