Well, as a stranger I can be objective. I have a little insight as well. I was never married though. Had a son with a man that I stayed with for a few years, he cheated on me for quite a while and moved her in the morning after I moved out. Its hard not to be lonely, its hard not to feel good when a man pays special attention. When he's not a prick, and is good in bed. Theres always going to be a dick around, its finding the right one. Theres certain things one has to take care of by themselves, no one can heal your heart for you. No one can give you the right mental state. If a man is keen on you, he should understand what bad timing is. If he follows another woman, well maybe he wasnt worth it after all?
Its always easier to be objective with someone else. (posted in
Why do I want a new MAN in my life??)