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  Why do people have affairs?
Thisis a question I have asked several people and have yet to find the answer.  So here I amagain...

1.  Why do people have affairs?

2.  What causesthem to look outside their relationship?

3.  Is an emotional affair as dangerousas a physical one?

4.  If you had to choose which your spouse/SO would have,which would it be... emoional or physical?

5.  When having an affair, do youtalk about your SO?

6.  When having an affair, who do you blame?
7.  As the one being cheated on, who are you most angry at?  Yourself? SO? The otherperson?

8.  Do you believe a relationship can recover from an affair?
9.  Once someone has an affair, do you believe they can be trusted again?
10. Have you ever had an affair?

11. Did you tell your SO or did they findout?

12. If you've stopped, do you miss the person you werewith?
Posted by KaiAyn on 2008-05-13 00:01:25
   Survey Answers
1, 2. - It's because their current relationship does not meet all
of their expectations. 3. It's much more dangerous. You would
not leave your partner only for sex but you could do so if you
fall in love with someone else. 4. Emotional. Everybody could
have a loverboy. However, just a few find a true soulmate. 5.
No. 6. If the relationship was perfect, there would be no
cheating. So both partners are to blame. 7. The other person.
Things should be talked out first... I cannot excuse cheating
happening all of a sudden. In a problem relationship - ok,
otherwise, I couldn't accept it. 8. Of course. 9. Yes.
People change... if they want to. 10. Yes, I've had. 11. I
did tell them. 12. Nope. They meant nothing to me.
Posted by black_lady on 2008-05-13 12:24:18  
1. Why do people have affairs? A. Because their lovers cause
them grief or fail to satisfy their emotional needs.
Alternatively, it's merely because the cheater is a completely
selfish jackass who is compulsive about having sex with more than
one person. 2. What causes them to look outside their
relationship? A. See the answer to the first question. 3.
Is an emotional affair as dangerous as a physical one? A.
Depends on how one's partner responds to it. 4. If you had to
choose which your spouse/SO would have, which would it be...
emoional or physical? A. Not sure I understand the
question. 5. When having an affair, do you talk about your
SO? A. I've never had an affair. 6. When having an affair,
who do you blame? A. Depends on the answer to question number
1. 7. As the one being cheated on, who are you most angry
at? Yourself? SO? The other person? A. Depends on the answer
to question number 1. Will post more next time.
Posted by MyGallimaufry on 2008-05-24 17:57:21  
8. Do you believe a relationship can recover from an affair? A.
Yes, but not every relationship can. It all depends on both the
cheater and the cheated partner. 9. Once someone has an
affair, do you believe they can be trusted again? A. Yes.
Again, it depends upon both the cheater and the cheated. 10.
Have you ever had an affair? A. No. 11. Did you tell your SO
or did they find out? 12. If you've stopped, do you miss the
person you were with?
Posted by MyGallimaufry on 2008-05-24 18:00:18  
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