So I was sitting back and re reading what I have posted so far. And it dawned on me that I may be trying to blame my parents for everything that has happened to me. So This is where I come clean.

I don’t Blame them for anything. I feel that they thought what they were doing, was for the best. I think that in there own way they loved me and wanted the best for me.

But what I learnt from them is to accept people for who they are and what they can achieve. Yes I am a parent myself I have three children (which I will talk about later). And yes I want the best for them and I will give them everything they need and probably more, that they don’t think they will need. I will encourage them to do the best they can.

However I am not going to stop them from being children and growing up with LOVE. I will be happy and pleased with what ever grade they will get in schooling or anything else they will choose. I will and do praise them for what they achieve. I never point out what they could do if they try a little harder or study a little longer or not play with this friend or that friend. I will always be there for them. So what happened to me won’t be passed on to them for the cycle to repeat itself.

Time out
KP 

When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us.
Helen Keller