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Playing House on 2008-04-30 23:26:45 |
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Wow LG that is wonderful, I look forward to reading up and coming post about your days at the stable. I don't think you will need it, but best of luck there and have great load of fun.
Sorry to hear about the job front. Hopeful your dream job will be there for you.
Have a great day
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Christmas in May on 2008-04-30 23:04:03 |
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As I have said to you in my email, I am going to hold off on sending them. And if the time is right I will later on.
I have caused enough tension in your house, I will not go out of my way to cause any more. I know that it must be hard for you at the momement. Just trying to keep the peice.
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Ghetto Girl on 2008-04-30 11:08:32 |
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While I was reading your blog, I thought I was reading about my own girl, Miss 9, also got glasses at a very young age, she is also super sensitive. She would also let the other kids get away with murder so that wouldn't get upset with her, she had trouble with friends breaking off into their lillte groups.
It does get better, slowly but surely. Even though many of the issues that were once a problem and seemed like the end of the world a few back, aren't as bad, it hurts so much knowing this was happening.
I hope things pick up for her very soon.
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When it's time, they know! on 2008-04-30 08:54:30 |
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When my mum was dying, after weeks of pain and suffering, one night she called out to me. I went to her and she said to me that in the morning I was to ring all her brother and sisters and make sure they were there that night with her. Of course I said yes, but I also asked why, her replie was that that night they were going to celebrate her leaving, because by the morning she would be gone. Not knowing what to say back to her, I didn't say a thing. That morning I rang her brother and sisters as she asked. They came and spent the afternoon and night with her, By 12pm I noticed that there was a change in her, she opened her eyes and nodded to me, I called everyone in to the room. By 12.10 she was gone. Just as she had said.
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The angels have come... on 2008-04-30 08:35:57 |
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They are not dead,
Who leave us this great heritage of remembering joy.
They still live in our hearts,
In the happiness we knew, in the dreams we shared.
They still breathe,
In the lingering fragrance,windblown, from their favourite flowers.
They still smile in the moonlight’s silver,
And laugh in the sunlight’s sparking gold.
They still speak in the echoes of the words we’ve heard them say again and again.
They still move,
In the rhythm of waving grasses, in the dance of the tossing branches.
They are not dead;
Their memory is warm in our hearts, comfort in our sorrow.
They are not apart from us, but part of us,
For love is eternal,
And those we love shall be with us throughout all eternity.
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Going for the record on 2008-04-30 08:14:42 |
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"Shivers" at the word dentist.
I can't remeber the last time I went. I have panic attacks at the dentist. I haven't fond one that will just knock me out completly and do what has to be done in one go so that I don't have to go back. In the past my panic attacks have been so bad that I have passed out. I get all sweaty and star to hyperventerlate, and a few times the nusea has over come me, so not a pretty sight.
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Tuesday ... loop hole?? on 2008-04-30 08:02:32 |
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Ohhhh go august (cue wicked laugh).
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MONDAY ... fun-day on 2008-04-30 07:59:08 |
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Hi Easy
I don't think you should give the satisfaction of letting him have it as a joint application. You did nothing wrong, you didn't want this he did, he should be held accountable, and if it hits him in the pocket because it is going to cost more, so be it. It isn't like he has made it easier for you having to pay him out with the house.
Just a thought
KP
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updates for those of you who are waiting.... on 2008-04-29 18:18:16 |
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Darling girl,
You and your family are in my thoughts. The sun will shine down at him when the angels are ready for him. He will leave here with peace in his heart.
Lots of love
KP
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Costa Rica - Pura Vida! on 2008-04-27 21:47:55 |
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Welcome back. I am glad that you had a terrfic time on your holiday.
And cheers to you for take such leaps (pardon the pun) of fate to experience new adventures, now you can say "I did that".
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It's all happening here ..... on 2008-04-27 09:50:19 |
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Hey Easy,
I feel your frustration, I feel your emotion. I don't having any advce I can give you, but I can say this, you are doing the right thing and saying the right thing. Even if at time you doubt yourself.
As for the worry people if you need more, there is a market on around me on a Saturday morning till 1 called the St Andrews Market. I know that you can get them there. If you need one more for Master 5. So that they each have ther own.
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My World on 2008-04-26 09:43:31 |
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This is beautiful, and I think many people feel like this too. I know that I do.
I wish I had the ability to help everyone
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Shorty is a killa on 2008-04-26 09:41:24 |
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I am happy that you are back. And anytime you need a sounding board I am here for you.
You are one strong woman, and I have faith in you that you will come through this.
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My obscene OBSESSION on 2008-04-23 07:46:12 |
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I hope you meant 5 pkts, not 5 biscuits each lol. Ohhh hell we just need the genie that comes with them.
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whyis dying so difficult? on 2008-04-23 07:31:53 |
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Ohhh honey I am so sorry that you are having to go through this. I wish that I had the righ words to say to you.
It is hard to watch someone die who is pain, we can dull the pain with drugs, but it is worse to watch someone who doesn't know who, why or where. There are no drugs for that.
My thoughts are with you, Andy and the kids. And I hope that you grandpa finds peace soon.
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Tidying Up - Car Rally Style on 2008-04-22 10:22:45 |
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Ohhhh is that al, sure you couldn't fit anything else in lol. Maybe we should have a timed session one day and see who can cross the finish line the fastest. lol
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My obscene OBSESSION on 2008-04-22 10:16:42 |
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Ohhh you are speaking in volumes to me. I love to do that.
Can't go past the original Tim Tam. I was once told to try it with port, mmmm now that is nice too, but love the hot choclate too. However if you are a coffee drinker that works too. Gives it a Mocha taste.
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Nothing and everything on 2008-04-22 08:35:40 |
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Hi Whitt,
I agree with everything that you have written, I too will miss Mamacita, and I too hope that she may come back to us.
I have much more I wish to say and I worry about the judgement of other people. But I came up with a sort of solution. I have actually opened a file that is for all my post. I write them as I feel the need to write them. And then when I am ready to post them I cut and paste them on to thoughts. It is a way to realise what I need to say when I need to say. And I only post them when I am truly ready. And it has help. It clears the mind at the time I need too. At the moment I have about 15 post that I haven't blogged yet. Maybe one day I will, and maybe one day I wont. But for now thy are out of my mind instead of clogging it up.
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*good* morning...??? on 2008-04-20 20:26:35 |
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Hugs and kisses to you all, and a big one for Jonah being such a great champ
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My life of changing Saturdays on 2008-04-19 07:23:25 |
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It sounds like a very pleasurable day that you had. I hope that tomorrow goes well for you at the party. And I hope that Master 5 enjoys himself greatly.
Just do me one small favor, try not to let yourself get down, with FOTY not being there tomorrow.
Have a good one.
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My favortie songs on 2008-04-18 10:36:55 |
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*shrugs* nah it is fine, music is my thing, can't live with out it.
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Manicure and a Marriage on 2008-04-18 08:29:55 |
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MMMM, I think it might be time to find a new manicurist
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It's A................ on 2008-04-18 07:25:48 |
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ummm, sorry I didn't quite get it, what are you having again lol.
People say that it is better to get the news on the day of the birth, but I think that it doesn't matter when you get it, the news is still mind blowing anyways.
Congrats to both of you.
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THE SUN ON MY BACK AND THE BEE GEES IN MY EAR on 2008-04-17 20:27:41 |
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Ohhh I so no that feeling. I am like that to. Music on at all times. It is the first thing I hear in the morning and the last thing at night. I love it when I am home alone I can put whatever I like on and as high as I like. I have a wide collection in taste of music, so alot depends on the mood I am in.
If I was to ever get with the times and buy an Ipod, I think I would need more than one with all the music I would want to fill it with.
Music les me be free from all the worries in the world.
I was rencently told by a friend that their partner never lstens to music and I felt so sad for that person as they are missing out on so much.
Music Rocks no matter what your taste may be.
And on a side note. Glad to hear that you are coming to peace with in your self. It seems the sunshine is finally casting its rays over you.
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From India With Love on 2008-04-17 20:00:34 |
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Had a family member go there recently, he invested in a eletronic translator, he said it was the best investment he ever made. Just and idea.
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I'm Sorry, Are You Serious? on 2008-04-17 19:57:13 |
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Thanks LG needed a good laugh. Idiot Number 4, needs some lessons on the birds and bees by the sound of it, man can men be so dumb sometimes. And I bet after you walked off he was muttering that you was wrong and he was right.
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My favortie songs on 2008-04-17 19:47:09 |
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Thought these might help. Just a few I came up with I think there are more out there.
Zak and Sara-Ben Folds
Zealots-The Fugees
Zebra- John Butler Trio
Zero-The smashing pumpkins
Zephyr- Red Hot Chili Peppers
Ziggy Stardust-David Bowie
(The) Zig zag Dance-The mighty mighty Bosstones
Zing Went The Strings Of My Heart
Zip-A-Dee-Doo-Dah
Zooropa-U2
Zorba
Zorro's Ascent
Sorry Faith Zanado is spelt "Xanadu"
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Ooops a CLM ...... on 2008-04-17 10:05:37 |
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Well if no one knew it was his birthday, it proably means that he didn't tell anyone.
Though I would be careful about the Birthday Cake for staff, you do it for one everyone will expect it for there birthday, and I bet it will be left up to you to always rememeber the cake.
But it is a lovely gesture, I will try and come up with and idea to keep the boss happy.
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Unemployed Part II on 2008-04-16 23:53:44 |
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I see one classy boss lady there. She is really clicked on with her staff, it only took her two hours to notice you weren't there.
Good luck on the job hunt I hope something comes to you soon.
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We are having a boy on 2008-04-16 08:12:32 |
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That is wonderful news. I am so happy for the both of you.
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A GIRLS NIGHT OUT????? on 2008-04-14 09:25:39 |
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That is fantasic. Even though I don't have a sister, I have to send that off to people. Hope you don't mind if I do a cut an paste.
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BEING A MOTHER ! on 2008-04-14 09:22:50 |
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Ahhh, excue me can I biff that "Somebody". I would love to know if there are mothers out there that feel that. I know I am the other mother (ohh but I don't have five kids to is enough, lol, 3 if you include hubby too).
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What I'd like to blog about! on 2008-04-14 04:18:33 |
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What a declaration, if only we know who? lol
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Looking Through Stained Glass on 2008-04-13 19:42:19 |
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I am looking for that place right now, I hope I find it soon, though I will keep serching till I do I won't stop and waon't say it is all too hard and give up. Thank you for sharing this, it has told me that I am not on a fruitful search, that this place is here with in somewhere.
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Response To Comments In Previous Blog… on 2008-04-10 15:52:30 |
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Not to make light ofyour blog, but I got the quote, first one.
If that is how a socalled friend treats you, do you really need her back in your life, hell I wouldn't want that. And the fact she doesn't even acknowledge what your problem was, is very insensitive on her behalf.
"Life is like a box of chocolates"
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To whom does the homework belong?? on 2008-04-10 15:27:34 |
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Ohhh I am so with shemelts and pitapie on this one. Some of the things my daughter has had to do was not what I would call age appropriate. Eg. Last year she had to research the family and choose 2 ansetors that migrated out here. Then we had say what way they traveled and what route they took. What they brought here when they came out and why did they come out. As most of the descents came out on a boat then we had to do some research on the boat.
I showed a aunt what I needed stuff for, as she had all the family informataion, so that helped and she was even surprised at what they were asking.
BTW I did really well got and A for the assigment lol. And don't get me started on the Commenwealth games a few years back (recoiling with misery at the memory, and I still have my son to go through all this stuff too. I wonder if I could recycle the homework).
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Spell my Name right or don't bother on 2008-04-08 21:01:56 |
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Ohhh I sooooooooooo too have this problem. Not only do I have issues with the end of my name but also with the begining. The ending is ene, I somtimes get ine, ina, ea. and as for the begining that is just beyond me. I am Kr, but I get Khr, Chr,Cr so I have no hope.
But what really irks me is when the person who is spelling my name is a family memeber. Well hello I have been in the famly for 36 year do you think just once you might get it right.
Ohhh and my poor kids Ihave realized are going to have the same issues.
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The Fast clock on 2008-04-08 20:51:24 |
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Hey easy, surely you had to know that somewhere along the lines there had to be one wrong clock in the house, there seems to be clocks on everything these days.
Ohh and I too set my clock early, so no you are not the only one.
Hey and why didn't you phone automatically change back mine did, and I hadn't realised so I then changed and ended up being 2 hours early.
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Affirmation on 2008-04-08 09:18:08 |
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It is a good thing that you got this out in the open with your mum. I think it would have been hard for the both of you. You because you had more to say and for your mum not to sure what was going on.
Now at least you both know where you stand.
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Master 4 turns 5 ... FOTY Free party on 2008-04-07 07:25:30 |
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Easy I think it is time for you to tell him he needs to be there for his sons birthday party.
What I think you need to do is instead of asking and making things easy for him, that he has to learn there are things he can opt out of and things he just can't. And I think that birthday parties are in the later catagory.
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My Old Man on 2008-04-06 10:00:01 |
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David this is lovely.
And it is so true that our parents did thier best for us. I can hear you love for him through your words.
Don't delete this, leave it up and be proud. This will be here for your child when they are older and want to know about there grandparent.
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Precious Moments on 2008-04-06 09:09:15 |
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Sorry Meredith I have one better,
Telling the world that my cancer is gone.
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If I had Known on 2008-04-06 09:03:00 |
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Congrats to the both of you. What a difference a year can make in anyones life. I am happy that yours and Davids year have been blessed with each other.
And guess what you will hav many many many more wonderful years together.
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Sunday - where'd it go? on 2008-04-06 04:02:14 |
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But hang on Easy you got that extra hour today, sure you could do more lol.
I know with my extra hour I spent it snuggled up in bed.lol
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Turtle Anatomy on 2008-04-05 22:30:42 |
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Do we need to book the turtle into therapy, all this time you thinking it was a she and now she is a he, gosh that has to play with the mind. lol.
Every day is a good day no matter what happenes in that day.
Cheers
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13 Things that make me glad to say Good-bye on 2008-04-05 01:59:43 |
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Ohhh I love the idea of sending these to JS in a thank you card, good idea Caring advise.
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domestic abuse on 2008-04-04 13:43:22 |
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Wow that sounds like a really lovely idea for a present. I bet there is many a wonderful tale in all those notes.
However it is sad to hear about you M.I.L and I hope that one day she does find the strenght to leave. For her own peace of mind and that of her family that want to see her safe.
It is also sad to read tat the police are gutless to do anything about your F.I.L . Personally I don't care how prominent you are, if you do the crime you should pay for it.
Best of luck
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And I on 2008-04-04 11:21:44 |
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Mamacitta, what about not opening the letters and do a "return to sender", that might tell him why you aren't answering his letters.
I love the song too. Can never work out Mandies quotes though, maybe I just don't watch enough movies to know.
Have a great walk tomorrow, and don't push yourself to hard with the knee. And enjoy your weekend.
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Promise Ring on 2008-04-04 05:56:14 |
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Now if you still had your crutches you could have used them on the creepy stalker lol. All in the name of an accident.
Okay over it now. Glad you are without them.
And ferrets!!!!!! Still trying to work out why. each to the own I guess.
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Almost 1 year ... on 2008-04-04 05:43:31 |
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I often read, in others blogs and now yours, about women who feel they are a failure, because their marriage has broken up, and most of the times it is when the husband has left and moved on with someone else from the begining.
But what I am trying to say is you didn't fail, he failed you, he failed the marriage and he failed the children too. I don't see how you have thought you failed when he never gave you the chance to fight for your marriage, once again I see that as failure on his part.
From what I have read over the months, is that you have stayed strong to who you are, and with everything that he has thrown in you path you have handled it with dignity. Stand proud and never see yourself as a failure when it comes to your marriage. You didn't choose this, he did.
PS. I would have the champagne in the fridge chilling so that you can toast yourself with all that you have endured over the last year.
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The Madman in My Closet on 2008-04-04 05:23:47 |
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You are still my voice of reson, you make my mind at ease wth your words, thank you.
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Application to Date my Daughter on 2008-04-03 10:37:55 |
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I had this emailed to me a few weeks back, I had such a good laugh over it. Hubby asked if I could take a copy for im later on.
Asked him why when he is finised building the tower like with rupenzal he wont need it.
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The candles on the cake on 2008-04-03 10:18:30 |
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Wish away baby.
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If you can't stand the heat.... on 2008-04-03 10:14:30 |
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And I love you Niki thanks
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Fuddy Duddy Daddy on 2008-04-03 08:31:18 |
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My husband was 45 when our youngest was born he is now 5, and between him and our daughter 9 it has been tough at times. But as my husband would say the kids have brought new life in to him. I think the have made him younger too.
So of course you are going to have fears, it is naturally, but the first time you hold your baby in your arms those fears as insignificant.
So hold strong, and enjoy the ride, in the hrd times as well as all the good times.
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I would like to thank the academy... on 2008-04-03 08:14:00 |
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Ohhhh okay now I get it, lol, brain has been on a vacation lol.
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Hello! on 2008-04-02 21:23:18 |
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So glad you are back.
WK and I are still here.
Hope you are here to stay for a bit,
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I Spy With My Little Eyes on 2008-04-02 21:18:52 |
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Thanks look forward to being a friend
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Flying Penguins on 2008-04-02 08:25:52 |
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Listen you do know that you have the perfect excuse to use now. And it can be used now and for some time after too. "You are pregnant"
I remember saying or doing the most strange and funny things while I was pregnant and I always got around it by say, "Well I am pregnant now". Let me tell you, you can get away with alot. hehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe
So I will let you get away with it because "you are pregnant"
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Foty - True to form on 2008-04-02 08:16:58 |
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Ps But maybe he didn't want to because he was enjoying the time with the kids and the fact that you were nice to him. And maybe he was worried that if he told you that a fight may have started.
Not saying you would have started something, but things have been very strained between you that he no longer knows where he stands with you and he was scared. Anyway thats all for now.
Peace
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Foty - True to form on 2008-04-02 08:12:44 |
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Okay I am going to step in here and play the devils advocate. Not that I think what FOTY did was right. Yes he should have told you and the kids that he was moving.
But just having gone through a move myself recently I had the mover cancel on me the day before he was meant to come. Why is it not possible that he only found out then and email you straight away. What if he was hoping to show the kids on Saturday the new house, then tell you, after he had moved.
Sometimes things happen and this may have been one of those times, and it may have not been FOTY fault, and possible it was the mates fault.
Just something to think about.
However you are right on the point that he should have told you and the kids when he was there on Tuesday night.
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2 weeks on 2008-04-01 22:15:02 |
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Whoopla!!!!!!! more crutch voilence can I watch lol.
PS Sorry for you bad day, it sucks when that happens. I have those days often.
Hope things get better for you soon.
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2 weeks on 2008-04-01 22:14:28 |
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Whoopla!!!!!!! more crutch voilence can I watch lol.
PS Sorry for you bad day, it sucks when that happens. I have those days often.
Hope things get better for you soon.
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Girly girl or a Tom Boy ..which are you? on 2008-04-01 08:37:18 |
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I wanted t be a girly girl, but I had to be pratical, living on a farm and studing hard all the time.
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Time.. on 2008-04-01 07:38:54 |
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Now that you have done your house canyou come and do mine too. Still trying to wade through all my boxes. I think I have the magic pudding story with my boxes, as fast as I unpack them there is more that needs to be done.
Did you have that talk yet?
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