Posted by
Plakola
on 2008-05-13 15:34:33 |
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| Well I believe that the person would believe that you are hot anyways if they like you. |
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Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-05-13 16:07:37 |
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For me it is both. I need to be physically attracted to him - that does not mean he is Brad Pitt.... But I need to like what I see.
Aswell as he must have a personality ... a good one! :)
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Posted by
VarahnTet
on 2008-05-13 16:30:01 |
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Personality and their voice or they way they speak. Eyes need to be expressive. Hot is not a body to me, it's confidence.
Good question!
~Tet~ |
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Posted by
shemelts
on 2008-05-13 16:39:42 |
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Hmm..this is an age old question..For me I am more attracted to a man's persona..How he carries himself, how he treats people, how confident he is in himself. We all have a set idea of what we like..but it is not set in stone. There are very many men that GREW on me as I got to know them better.
peace :) shemelts |
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Posted by
katekatekate
on 2008-05-14 06:32:39 |
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| I'd have to say both. A boy can be amazing through his personality, but if I'm not phsyically attracted to him it's hard to make it work. |
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Posted by
becomeasalittlechild
on 2008-05-15 12:51:59 |
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Hello Jasmine,
Spiritual and physical:
When I first saw my finacee to be in a church from a distance it seemed as if she was 'lit up' like bathed in a white light (I hadn't had this experience, though married twice before)...something did switch on inside of me when I saw her.
Personality:
The next time I sat with a friend on the same table as her for a cup of tea after a 'churches together' event. On a later occasion we were invited to have coffee together with another 'mutual' friend. Both times she seemed...alive in her personality and manerisms. This was more attractive to me than the earlier physical.
Intellectual:
Now we have got to know one another more after three years together (we marry on 19 July 2008). The most attractive thing now is talking about mutual interests and issues - church stuff, food!, what we have learned from our individual life difficulties, helping friends find thier way in life. She surprises me sometimes with some amazing insights into life. These things are attractive in an intellectual sense.
Thanks for the question! |
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