I am a creative, vivacious and honest woman. I sing with a Christian band, write lyrics, compose music, play several instruments, volunteer as a relationship counselor and I do attendchurch weekly. I was trained by Mars Venus as a relationship coach. Imagine that! haha  I was just married December 8, 2007 to the love of my life and I'm very happy so I haven't been on so much.

I came here to mind dump my thougths as they seem to overwhelm my being so I need a place to put them. haha I write about my feelings/emotions which are strong and sometimes very intense, observations and anything that interests me.....and sometimes whine just like everyone else. I enjoy writing humorous relationship articles and books. I have an unpublished book on internet dating and online predators and would like to get some of my writings published some day.

I see the good in people even when others may not...that is my downfall. My gift of compassion and mercy and my open mindedness as well as my huge heart for people tends to get me into trouble. I care too much. But can you care too much?

I hope to learn from others and others learn from me. That is what life is about. I believe there are no coincidences...events and people are brought into our life for a reason...mainly to learn and grow from them. Each obstacle a challenge to be overcome and strengthen us all in coming closer to God and who he created us to be. We so often become what others want us to be and loose our true selves. That has been my prime life objective. A seeker of truth and to become the person I was intended to be while on this earthly plane. I have mixed beliefs...I do not believe in the literal verbiage of the Bible but of the messages intended from it. I see it more as a piece of literature.

I believe in treating people with respect and dignity, compassion, love and above all forgiveness. We are not perfect. We are, after all, human and make mistakes. We often seek perfection where there is none and it often eludes us to our dismay. No one is perfect.

Let the mind dump begin....