Posted by
neha1987
on 2008-04-23 01:27:57 |
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Hey talking to some one about your trobles will definetly help you to find solutions of your problems yourself. Do try once if you can.
I would surely like to say that you write very well. Keep expressing your thoughts thus. |
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Posted by
WinterWolfy
on 2008-04-23 02:32:08 |
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I don’t know what’s the definition of “friend” in your mind. In my opinion, “friend” doesn’t only mean a person who can always bring happiness to me, but also he’s a person who’s willing to share----his happiness or sadness. By sharing each other’s feeling, I always make a lot good friends who will never be isolated. Now, even though we don’t go to the same class, the same school or even we are not in the same country, we can still feel the friendship in our hearts.
“FRIENDS, so don’t bother or keep questioning me when I don’t talk.” Do you know this sentence will hurt a lot of your good friends? I believe that they all want to see your happy face everyday, in additional, they are also willing to listen or even solve your unhappiness. Therefore, when you are quiet, they are not being a jerk and force you entertain them as what you thought; by contrast, they just want know about your issue and try to help you even they might not be able to help. I believe every friend who does care about you must do it when they perceive your unhappiness. Therefore, I suggest you that to talk to one of your trustful friend when you are unhappy because I believe that they will relieve your stress even they can’t help you solve the problem.
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Posted by
InotStupid
on 2008-04-23 03:03:07 |
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Well, then this is who i am. Characteristic is not a thing that you think that can be changed easily. And I am sure that when every one is bothered by some issues, he/she not want to talk or explain or question by as well. So why not just let them calm down for a little bit while they are trying to dispassionate their feelings besides giving a further explanation to you.
Talking positively, every one says that share with others is very important, but how much did u share with your family or your friends? |
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Posted by
lnl
on 2008-04-23 20:24:49 |
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| I feel that i can relate to this too, and sometime i question myself if i am a fake person because i try to hide my sadness when i am sad. but then i dont think its being fake because not everyone needs to know your business especially if there is nothing they can do to help the situation. i sometimes hide my emotions from people too because i dont want to think about it, and when people ask quesions it seems to make things worse. i think its good to be reserved at times. |
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Posted by
fruitskingdom
on 2008-04-23 23:18:12 |
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| Sometimes I feel the same way. I don't want people to violate my private things. Although the closer the friend is to me, the deeper we discuss our private issues, there is time that I don't want to share certain problems that I have. It does not mean that they are not my friend, but just I don't feel comfortable talking about certain things. so I understand how you feel and why sometimes you don't want to talk. but if they are your real friend, maybe you should honestly tell them that you don't want to talk and why. |
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Posted by
ALittleBit
on 2008-04-24 00:07:08 |
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| I think most people have some kind of problem as you do, especially for those who seems like a active person amount their friends. But it's not a big deal. Who can keep themselves energetic all the time? Don't call yourself fake or what, everyone want to have their party time or isolated moment. I'm sure that your friends are going to miss you. not for your jokes, but for your whole person. |
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Posted by
angela_trieu
on 2008-04-24 01:07:32 |
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I agree with neha1987 that "talking to some one about your trobles will definetly help you to find solutions of your problems yourself". Sometimes, you may need quiet for you to solve your problems. However, your best friends might help you if you can share with them your problems.
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Posted by
Allen2487
on 2008-04-24 02:02:40 |
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| hah sounds like your situation is playing with your emotions. youre probably not annoying your friends in the literary sense, its probably more of a family style "annoyance" where your sibling might mess up your things and get in your way but the situation is better than having no one at all around. its good to know that you can talk about anything with your friends |
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Posted by
Amortiseur
on 2008-04-24 08:09:33 |
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I actually face this same situation with my friends. They may say you're annoying, but they're teasing. Yes, you may talk a lot. Yes, you may joke around. But if it ever gets on their nerves, it's because they spend so much time with you. As Allen2487 said, it's more like a family annoyance. As long as you acknowledge that you are sometimes boisterous and try to keep it under control in certain situations, they aren't going to start hating you for your personality! ;)
Also, learn to OWN who you are - accept yourself, strengths, weaknesses, and all.
And finally, realize that your friends consider you an integral part of the group. If you were to leave your friends, they would realize the huge presence that is missing from their world. This is what they feel every time you are quiet because something is bothering you. Just say, "I've got something on my mind, I just want to think it over." You shouldn't feel obligated to explain yourself to anyone, even your closest friends.
Good luck! |
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