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So I admit that the reason I started my blog here was because I have no where else to put these thoughts. Usually I am very good at internalizing and moving on, but this is bigger than me......so much bigger. That being said I think I am past the melodrama, or past it enough that I don't have to post it out here. It seems so odd going back and reading my first few posts because they just don't seem like me. They say that it's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved before? OK.....SERIOUSLY? I mean that is some bullshit right there. I think I'd rather get punched in the face every day than suffer through the whole loss part of love. One thing I've noticed is that there are an awful lot of broken hearts blogging here ....some young, some old. Some love addicted, some love starved and some like me broken and in hiding. I never thought I'd be here in love hell again and it's kind of good to know that I'm not alone. Though I'd really like for this to be over soon.....I can't remember how long it takes to get back to some sort of normalcy. |
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Posted by Imalive on 2008-02-04 10:44:28 | Rating: | Views: 123
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Could it be that you don't love yourself enough to grow thru this? Every situtation in life is to help us grow more and to become the person we were meant to be.....Life is so full of heart ache and drama and the people in our lifes are there for "a reason, season or lifetime" It is by our choice as who gets to stay......
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Posted by Hollis
on 2008-02-04 10:50:02
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Hmmm food for thought...at this point I'm just making sure that my shoes match and that I remember how to get to work. Though if this is how I grow in life....I think I'd like to be stunted from this point on.
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Posted by Imalive
on 2008-02-04 11:00:59
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I beg to differ just a little from Hollis-- I think self-love is sometimes what makes us depressed. I find that when I'm just broken to pieces about something/someone, the best way to get over it is to quit thinking about Me and get busy trying to make someone else's life better. It totally works! Try it! The pain will still be there, but you will gain new friends by helping others.
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Posted by edeneyre
on 2008-02-04 11:03:29
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I completely agree with edeneyre.
I dont think that you have to love yourself, to grow through things like heartbreak. Even the vain, suffer broken hearts.
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Posted by Blake11
on 2008-02-04 23:26:48
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edeneyre and Blake,
I didn't mean to love only yourself to get thru it. But if you don't have enough faith and love in yourself how can you get over someone or start anew?
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Posted by Hollis
on 2008-02-10 00:14:23
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