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We've all heard it or said it. "We can still be friends......." Wether a relationship ends because of choice or circumstance is irrelevant, the "friends" thing almost never works. For one thing it's usually a huge lie, one or both are using the "friends" label to continue to have some form ...........ANY form of contact. Let's face it...if you were really invested in a relationship what are the odds your going to look at that person and feel nothing but platonic friendship? I mean because you want to be friends in the end isn't going to stop their heart from rocketing around their chest when they hear your voice. And really isn't what we all want from people that we've loved is to hear about their new relationships? The "friends" label is a special kind of torture that eventually leads to a huge blow up or some drunken sobbing phone call. I admit to having thought that the worst part about a particular break up was losing a really good friend. I even said that out loud and it wasn't a lie. I really did lose a great friend. Did that mean that after having been with him that we could pick our friendship up where we left off? Not a chance in hell. It may have been more convienient for him (since he left me :D ) but that was a pile of crap. Come to find out it wasn't easy for him either......apparently hearing about life post you isn't fun. I understand there are exceptions to every rule and that some of you may be the very best of friends with ex-lovers......more power to you. I like my friends to be people that haven't seen me naked thank you very much.
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Posted by Imalive on 2008-06-11 16:50:39 | Rating: | Views: 55
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