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Now that I have started moving toward divorce, it sure is a long, long road. The big problem is that I have to sell this house and the house needs repairs to really make it marketable. I'm not really concerned with making a bunch of money on it, but there does need to be enough to cover the two mortgages. The money that is left I don't really care about. This is probably going to be a year long process.
There is also the process of getting rid of the years and years worth of crap that have accumulated here. A yard sale is planned for September and I'm going to do some ebay listings for some stuff. The plan is to move into an apartment and there will likely be much less space. That's fine with me because I hate it when things get cluttered and crowded and that is exactly the way it is here for the most part.
To me the wife doesn't even admit that we are heading toward divorce, but she has to others, including N. Around here she acts like nothing is wrong. I am slowly starting to live my own, seperate life. For example I have started going for walks at night. My wife has asked me the last two nights if something was wrong when I said I was going for a walk. Why would my going for a walk mean something is wrong? It shows how little she knows about me.
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Posted by HungryHeart on 2008-07-09 02:14:38 | Rating: | Views: 99
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A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step -- Lao Tzu
Even at this early date you might want to consider speaking with a Realtor. A Realtor can do a CMA (Comparative Market Analysis) which will determine your home's worth and approximate selling price. There is no charge for this service. Depending on how much profit you need to net you might want to consider selling your home "as is" or have money put into an escrow account (at closing) for repairs. This saves you the hassle of doing the repairs yourself. Knowledge is power ... always good to know one's options in any given situation. Good luck to you as you journey towards a peaceful happier life. Peace.
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Posted by ColoradoDreamin
on 2008-07-12 16:40:21
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It's so neat to see the progess of when I joined Thoughts a year ago and now here you are, getting everything you wanted and it's all falling right into place. I love in your last blog how you said 'she's not a child and I'm not her parent' it's so true! I'm sl glad things are working out!
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Posted by Acre
on 2008-07-13 22:49:42
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HH - I know you already know this, but it will be hard road to travel, and I'm sure you won't lose sight of the fullfilment you will have once you get to your next resting point.
I wish you luck.
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Posted by EasyToSay
on 2008-07-15 07:26:17
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*hugs* i'm so proud of you, and i wish you all the best. my prayers are always with you. You deserve the best, and i really hope that your life has more meaning to you once you are able to be the free man you wish to be. i wish the best and my prayers are also with your wife, i hope the both of you find what your needing in life. but for you, i'm so proud to see things moving into a different direction, a better one :)
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Posted by pixierose
on 2008-07-15 23:20:25
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