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Love and threats are not the same thing, but too often threats are made under the guise of love.
"If you leave, I will kill myself." That is the worst. Yes it hurts when a person decides his or her life would be better without us. It is embarrassing and leaves scars. It would be reasonalbe to no longer love that person. But how can you claim to still love that person and yet want to burden her or him with guilt?
I have been told, "If you ever leave me, you know what will happen. I will die." How do you deal with something like that?
But enough whining. I knew what I was getting into....sort of. You make your decisions in life and then deal with the consequences.
All the times
That I've cried
All this wasted
It's all inside
And I feel
All this pain
Stuffed it down
It's back again
And I lie
Here in bed
All alone
I can't mend
But I feel
Tomorrow wil be OK
Staind - Outside
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Posted by HungryHeart on 2008-03-10 00:18:50 | Rating: | Views: 96
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My husband used to say just that to me...thats why I stayed as long as I did. But then one day my sister said to me...that's not love, its blackmail, and at the end of the day, you are not responsible for his actions. I knew she was right, but I couldn't bear the thought of what he might do if I left. Of course, in the end I did leave...because eventually a time comes when you have to do what's right for you, maybe be a little bit selfish. My sister was right, only he is responsible for his actions. He is still very much alive!
I did just want to add that yes, we do make our decisions and have to deal with the consequences...but we are also allowed to change our minds, and its not wrong to walk away. Put yourself first...because if you don't...no one else will.
I'm ever hopeful of a happy ending for you.
Peace and love to you xxx
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Posted by chebtastic1
on 2008-03-11 16:57:02
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Prince Everything married a woman because when he broke up with her, she threatened to kill herself. Now, they're BOTH miserable...
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Posted by BitterSweetheart
on 2008-03-13 08:40:31
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