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My pain on 2008-01-31 01:57:59 |
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I look forward to reading more from you. Pour out your problems and worries here. It helps.
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The guilt... on 2008-01-31 01:44:16 |
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I know just where you are coming from. I'm in a very similar situation that just won't go away. If you have feelings for him and he has them for you, talk to him about it. Don't live with regret about what you didn't do.
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NO END IN SIGHT on 2008-01-31 01:39:03 |
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Don't let your mom's situation effect the rest of your life. She has made her decisions and now you get to make yours. You are young and have a future ahead of you. Whatever her problems are, they are not your fault. I wish you the best.
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how to unclog a toilet on 2008-01-31 00:37:30 |
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There is a book called "Easy Does It" that has many of these type of tips in it. You can probably find it used online.
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Please pray this prayer. on 2008-01-31 00:27:07 |
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Joey is very lucky to have you. I hope and pray that everything works out.
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Woke up late! & Questions on mid-life crisis on 2008-01-31 00:22:41 |
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Mid-life crisis? Hell I don't know, but I'm in my 40s and restless. I don't really need a younger woman (age isn't an issue), but I do need to live more.
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Thoughts On Thoughts on 2008-01-31 00:09:50 |
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I am thankful that you joined Thoughts. Your words have meant a lot to me. You have a wonderful way of understanding what I am trying to say.
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How Do You Know You've Found 'The One?' on 2008-01-28 03:14:35 |
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You give me faith in the whole soulmates theory. Every time I read your blog, I am so happy for you and David. I wish we could all be that happy.
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am i missing something? on 2008-01-28 03:10:35 |
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Rich or poor, we all want to live. We all want the rush. Don't let anything stop you.
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Tears on 2008-01-28 03:06:33 |
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Maybe it's time to stop crying into the pillow and start hitting it? I don't know. But life is too short. Have some fun.
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The Date That Never Happened on 2008-01-28 02:48:18 |
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Where the hell do you find "nice and stable." I don't know any of those people. The people I know are just as messed up as I am.
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im lost on 2008-01-28 02:44:49 |
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I'm sure there are some people who are not, but most of the people I know are lost and can't find a purpose.
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sailing on 2008-01-27 02:15:17 |
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You are a beautiful writer.
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somethings that i hate .. on 2008-01-27 01:56:20 |
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I love your attitude! I also hate when people feel compelled to ask me where I work. What's it to them? I want to say, "I'm a drug dealer. Nice to meet you."
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Music on 2008-01-27 01:45:50 |
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Shoot man, it's been this way for many years. Remember when such ridiculous songs as Don't Rock the Boat, Windy, Shake Your Booty and anything by Micheal Bolton topped the charts in the 60s, 70s and 80s? Too many people like the modern version of Mary Had a Little Lamb playing on the radio, not something with deep lyrics, driving guitars and pounding drums.
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I can taste... on 2008-01-27 00:31:50 |
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I'm glad you are happy and blogging again. You deserve happiness.
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Who can we talk to? on 2008-01-26 01:00:29 |
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If you can't find someone to talk to, talk here. It helps me.
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homophobe on 2008-01-26 00:26:31 |
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I'll never understand why people get so bent out of shape about gay people. If someone isn't hurting someone, I don't care how they make themselves happy.
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She wants to run away on 2008-01-26 00:18:46 |
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Most of us want an escape sometime. I want all those things you want...except for the cuddling with Josh thing. I'm sure he's a nice guy, but.... Anyhow, I wish you luck in finding your beach.
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Dying Alone on 2008-01-26 00:11:05 |
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You need to have a little faith. Somewhere out there is a gay crackhead who is basically unattractive, but has attractive qualities, although he is an idiotic jerk.
Just kidding. You can find what you want, but you have to be sure about what you want first.
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how sad on 2008-01-23 01:25:54 |
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I was happy when I was single. I am now married and frustrated. Don't feel guilty about being happy.
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Do You Give (Good) Advice? If YES It's Needed Here on 2008-01-23 01:03:21 |
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Let him go do whatever he has to do without any expectations but don't sit around waiting for him....but what do I know?
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What do you say? on 2008-01-23 00:11:05 |
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Polite conversation is well intentioned but I too find it annoying sometimes.
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depression on 2008-01-23 00:01:11 |
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It sounds like you did everything you could. Now is the time to do for you. You can't be responsible for another person who is making his own decisions. I wish you the best of luck.
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Remembering A Friend on 2008-01-22 23:00:00 |
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In a lot of ways that would have been a letter I could have wrote to my wife is she was successful in her attempts. Thank you for sharing.
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thoughts on love and smoking on 2008-01-22 00:51:49 |
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It sounds like you and me have a lot in common. I wish I didn't know it, but I know something is missing.
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january 18th, 5:16pm. on 2008-01-19 14:53:10 |
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Wow, in just that short blog I went from feeling elated for you to being worried for you. There are no easy answers but I'm sure you will make the right decisions.
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ignorance abound on 2008-01-18 11:35:44 |
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Men who hit women are among the lowest forms of life on the planet. They deserve no love, but often still receive it. They are not worthy of pity, They use fear and intimidation to get what they want. I would like to show them the other side of fear and intimidation.
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sea legs on 2008-01-17 23:34:18 |
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I hope there will be an end to our journeys and that there is always hope.
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Funniest Dream I Ever Had... on 2008-01-17 23:30:59 |
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I am so proud of you for quitting the smokes! As for the dream, could it be the ciggarette cravings are being replaced by cravings for short, fat men with chocolate covered hands? LOL Better to have weird dreams than clogged lungs. Keep up the good work.
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Where did you go? on 2008-01-17 01:07:56 |
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I tend to drift off too. Try to find someone who you can be honest with, who will not judge you - a doctor is good, a friend is better. Good luck.
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ok we are going to Oklahoma on 2008-01-17 00:30:45 |
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I'm happy for you. I hope all your dreams come true. Please keep us posted.
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venting about stepkids mom & other stuff on 2008-01-17 00:27:57 |
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I hope the venting made you feel a little better anyhow. I know it helps me. Whoever that woman's divorce lawyer was must be brilliant or your husband just completely caved. I never heard of a deal like that. I hope things get better for you.
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You Are Worth It on 2008-01-17 00:10:37 |
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I love that too. I'm going to copy it for future reference.
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what a strange looking glass on 2008-01-17 00:00:22 |
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I've seen your pictures and I can say that without any hidden agenda you are a very beautiful woman. You have no reason to feel self-conscience. I always felt inferior when I went home to visit my family too. So I seldom went.
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It's a shame on 2008-01-14 00:48:47 |
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You're right. But still you just can't be too careful. When a child is abused that child's life is destroyed. If I have to insult someone to protect a child, so be it. But it is awful that I feel the need to think this way.
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You Freak Me Out on 2008-01-14 00:39:11 |
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Everybody has answers when they don't feel it for themselves. I use to be judgemental. But now I know there are no easy answers when you find love you weren't looking for or never knew existed.
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1st Post on 2008-01-13 23:55:24 |
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This is a great place to empty your head. That is what I do. Don't judge what you write, just enjoy the process.
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Why do I give up my happiness for the one I love.. on 2008-01-13 22:48:36 |
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You know what you have. Don't expect him to change. Whatever you do, you should do for you. Is it better with him as things are now or by yourself? That is a tough decision only you can make. I wish you well.
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What Else... Me Bitching on 2008-01-13 01:04:08 |
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I believe that love in its purest form is unconditional. That means no expectations. That does not mean that you allow yourself to be used by someone. I doubt, however, that you would feel much love for someone who likes to use others. But, hell, what do I know?
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What do I do? on 2008-01-13 00:23:57 |
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Be real careful. Does he really care about you or does he really need to have a girlfriend? Take it slow. If he really cares he will be patient. Good luck.
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"Things are lookin up from down in the hole" - a.h on 2008-01-13 00:07:43 |
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I'm so happy for you. I'm sure your future is bright. This week is just a preview.
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Testimony of a Survivor on 2008-01-09 13:45:47 |
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Thank you for sharing your painful but rivoting story. That God you finally were able to summon up the strength to leave. I wish more women could find that strength. I also wish every wife beater came with a mark in the middle of his forehead for easy identification.
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stepmother vs biological mother Part 1 on 2008-01-09 12:27:17 |
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Now that is a tough situation. A couple years ago my brothers two boys stayed with us for just a weekend and I got just a slight sense of what you deal with daily. God bless you.
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Grandpa G on 2008-01-09 12:13:08 |
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I'm so sorry that you had to endure that. It says a lot about you that you kept trying to make contact with your grandfather. I've walked away from relationships over far less rejection.
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Life on 2008-01-09 01:51:48 |
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What Brokenhearted said is true. We don't want to hurt or disappoint those who know us best. We don't worry about that with strangers.
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My Song on 2008-01-09 01:16:48 |
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I'll pick an old Rod Stewart song about regret called "I Was Only Joking."
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Days on 2008-01-09 00:53:22 |
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We all have those days. Maybe it's a longing for adventure? Something to break the tediousness of everyday life? (PS I grew up in West Newton.)
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ever wonder why on 2008-01-09 00:41:36 |
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Great points, Wayne. I especially liked the black box question.
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Can't stop Crying on 2008-01-09 00:17:51 |
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I can't believe how cowardly and selfish some people can be. That is just so awful.
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Why are some guys blind about feelings? on 2008-01-09 00:14:57 |
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It is definitely his problem. It seems he should know what his girlfriend is like. If that life is what he chooses, you can do little about it.
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A Surprise Visit on 2008-01-08 23:16:22 |
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I'm happy that your spirits have been lifted. Have a good time.
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neglected on 2008-01-08 23:08:43 |
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That is the rough side of love. I hope you again soon find the smooth side.
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please somebody listen on 2008-01-08 00:32:38 |
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I know you must feel very unlucky but in many ways you are blessed. I was never very close to my dad. You are close to yours and that is a blessing. Enjoy the time you have left with him whether that is years or days. Talk to him about everything. He will always live on through you. He may be weak but he is the same man. I wish you the best.
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basic complaints on 2008-01-06 15:36:24 |
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I wish you lived closer. I have become quite the babysitter over the last few months. (Who would have thought?) Is there any way to start a single moms support group in your area where you could help each other out? I've heard of that working in other places. I wish you the best. Keep smiling.
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rant on 2008-01-06 15:29:09 |
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Raising a child has to be 50/50. I don't think it is too much to ask for a man to change some diapers or walk the floor cradling her when a child is crying or cranky. Those are the times the child most needs someone.
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And now this on 2008-01-04 01:47:38 |
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I look forward to hearing more. Writing about things can help. I know it has helped me.
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Sore memories on 2008-01-04 01:37:11 |
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That was a beautiful blog. Thank you for sharing such intimite details of your life.
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awww man... on 2008-01-04 01:08:10 |
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Stand by your guns. Your his girl not his maid.
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Can't even think straight... on 2008-01-04 01:05:47 |
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That is normal when you eliminate nicotene. Hang in there. I'll be pulling for you.
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'I love you, not because of who you are, but becau on 2008-01-04 00:53:07 |
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I love that quote too. Thank you for sharing.
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I hate her! on 2008-01-04 00:42:58 |
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Her attitude had a lot more to do with her than you. If you feel the need to change your life, what does that say about the life she is living? There is probably a Christian student group where you go to school. Attend an event or two. You will find acceptance I'm sure. Good Luck.
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the last back porch dialogue on 2008-01-04 00:30:29 |
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It is just a matter of time until you are discovered. (Just remember us when you make it big!)
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blogging redefined on 2008-01-04 00:28:36 |
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You really do have a way with the written word. You write things the way I think them. I'm really glad you are on this site.
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I'm discovering myself...I love Halo3! on 2008-01-03 00:48:24 |
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Enjoy your time with your friend and ask him what would make him happy. It is an innocent question. And if he says, "You do" magic may happen. I wish the best for you.
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A strange but better day on 2008-01-03 00:21:41 |
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Good for you for being so strong. Lean on your friends here whenever you need.
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Competitive Parents on 2008-01-03 00:16:22 |
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Just being there will mean a lot to your children. I remember how I swelled with pride the few times my dad attended one of my sporting events.
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thoughts on my screen name.. on 2008-01-02 23:58:20 |
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That right there was a great piece of writing. I hope that writing all these thoughts out lead to a happier you.
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Am I "Bad"? on 2008-01-02 23:41:56 |
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Life isn't an episode of the Brady Bunch. Stuff happens. We all need to live.
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writers....block? on 2008-01-02 23:31:24 |
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I was a reporter for three papers and news director at a radio station. Find something or someone interesting to write about and submit it to your local paper. Just make sure you have a good local angle. Once you have built up a nice portfolio of stories getting a reporters job will be easy. It will pay the bills while you write more important things.
Also, use your digital camera to talk some pictures to submit with the story. That helps.
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So Lucky! on 2008-01-02 23:30:04 |
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Congratulations! It's nice to hear from someone so happy.
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my baby on 2008-01-02 23:22:41 |
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I'm sure there are some great children's hosptials in southern California. Don't let any stone unturned. I pray it works out for you.
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I AM LEGEND - The New Movie with Will Smith. on 2008-01-02 22:56:19 |
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Thanks for the review. I love Will Smith films, but at least I'll be prepared now.
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off to see the wizard on 2008-01-02 21:43:58 |
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No matter how you dress, talk or act, I still like you. Have a great New Year (Belated cause I worked last night.)
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New Year's Eve Reflections on 2008-01-02 21:40:25 |
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I'm glad you're here. Your posts and comments make thoughts a better place.
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the time to live is now on 2008-01-01 14:37:21 |
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I love it! That blog should replace the Auld Lang Syne song as the anthem for New Years. Be happy, be content...you accomplish those resolutions, everything else will fall into place.
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