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I think that drama is started because that person is lonely, wants attention, is addicted to it and has nothing better to do with his or her time.
When drama is happening, excitement happens, your body produces adrenaline and there is a rush of energy. People addicted to drama are seeking that rush of adrenaline, or the thrill that the rush of energy brings them. For people that lead a very uninteresting or monotonous life, that rush of adrenaline helps them feel alive. Creating drama means stirring up the energy. Think of it as a thrill seeker trapped in a mundane life. Stirring up drama by creating conflicts and blowing things out of proportion may be the only expression the thrill seeker has left.
Now to ignore that type of person Understand the consequences.
This person will be angry. Being rejected is hard to cope with and some do it better than others. Prepare yourself. Inform mutual friends that you intend to end contact with this person and if they have questions answer them - don't be too eager to talk about this person though. The point is removing them from your life and dwelling on the issue will be counter-productive.
Don't try to get others to join your "side" or get involved - if your target tries to do this to you, react by letting people know that they can make up their own minds. Let them know your position. You just want to let it go and be left alone. Most people will understand this and if they don't they eventually will.
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Posted by HowlingWolf on 2009-09-24 08:13:49 | Rating: | Views: 52
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