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So I'm a little new to this. This is my first blog.
what to write.What to write.... so many possibilties.
So I thought I'd write about what every teen has on their mind. Love.
Yes love. Such a topic that strikes either fear or exctiment into one's heart at a mere mention. A topic that haunts one until the day they day. A constant struggle which every single person is in, yet to find a person to love is like trying to find the perfect shoes to go with your favourtie outfit. Not impossible, just hard, and once you find it, you can't help but tell the world.
I've been surrounded by love. Through friends and family. And I'm so thanful for it. It's made me what I am today. But It's the other kind of love that I seem to be missing in my life. I mean I've had relationships before, some have even been kinda serious. But the elusive feeling of love seems to miss me everytime. Have I loved before? I mean people say that once you love someone, you'll know immediatly, that it's like nothing you've ever felt. But how do you ever truely know? I find myself doubting my feelings everytime a new crush comes along. It feels new, but I know deep down that it's not. I've felt these feelings before. The rush everytime he passes me, the stare that lingers a bit too long, the love song songs I dedicate to him, and listen on repeat. They happen, and will probably happen again. But does that make it love? Does the fact that I doubt these feelings mean it's not love?
I find my self pondering these questions in the middle of the night.
This isn't about anyone in particular, just love in general.
So yes. That's my first blog. A little look inside the world that is me.
More personal stuff coming :)
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Posted by Herionhearts on 2008-01-18 08:48:06 | Rating: | Views: 101
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eeeeegahk! love!
nothing personal love.. nice story (:
x
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Posted by TresBellex
on 2008-01-18 08:50:11
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Actually i read through that again and your thoughts about love makes me ponder. is it just a thing that comes and goes, or does it stick? and is it true that you can only truly love one person. "theres no past tense in loving someone, you either always have, or never did." thats true in a way because if you really loved someone then how could you stop. if thats true love? and how do you know if its true? is there a sign? or a feeling? and what is this feeling? x
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Posted by TresBellex
on 2008-01-18 08:57:52
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Good point. I read through it again and felt it was confusing lol. but yes. how do we know it's true? and if we " fall out of love" was it really true love in the first place.
Hmmmn....
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Posted by Herionhearts
on 2008-01-18 09:02:03
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Love is not majick in the sense that it is a feeling that just happens when a baby with wings shoots you in the but with an aro. love is not a thing, feeling, or majick spell. Love is a decision, a concious choice, that one has to make time and time again throughout their life. Yes you will feel a certain way, and we all know how it feels. We have all felt it before. More than once too. The feeling is the same. Palms get sweaty, dont know what to say, afraid that if you say anything at all youll just wind up putting your foot in your mouth. More importantly it is the feeling of complete selflesness that is brought out of you by the indavidual whom you choose to love. To love someone means to put them before you. this is something that is not always easy to do for us humans. So it is something that u have to choose to do. The more u are in love with someone the easier those choices will be for u to make. just remember, and this is probably the one thing that confuses most of us when it comes to our own feelings, just because u choose to love someone, dosnt mean they have to or will choose to love u back. The reson Love is so powerfull is because it deals with the most powerfull thing that god has ever blessed us with, and thats the freedom of choice. As long as two peopl choose to love each other and NEVER GIVE UP ON ONE ANOTHER NO MATTER HOW BAD THE TIMES GET, then u have the power of unconditional love on your side. Hoped I helped, and good luck.
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Posted by IcePolarB
on 2008-01-19 17:02:09
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The question is not "what is love?" but "why am I feeling what I am feeling?" Framing the issue with that question leads you to more sensible answers.
You are feeling what you are feeling because evolution via natural selection has shaped the human psyche so that it wishes strongly for sex. Another part of the psyche that has developed independently is the desire to be monogamous. The culture you are in sanctions dating as the best way to approach the problem.
So what does that mean for you? Your crushes are a mere result of brain chemistry and are perfectly natural. Another, different (and almost warringly so) part of yourself wants to do more than merely procreate with every eligible male in sight and rear children--it wants to be in an exclusive relationship. In order to engage in such a relationship successfully, a great deal of patience and intentional effort is required.
So "love" is is a combination of elements including raw sex drive, the desire for a monogamous relationship, the desire (or non-desire) for children, and intentional effort to maintain the delicate balance of a monogamous relationship.
These are the facts :)
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Posted by distraughtwanderer
on 2008-01-20 00:04:52
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I THINK ITS INFATIATION THE THRILL OF THE CHASE,LOVE IS WHAT YOU FEEL AFTER THE CHASE AND CRUSH IS DIEING DOWN,THE OVERWHELMING NEDD TO BE INVOVLED WITH THIS PERSON TO WANT TO GO ON A JOURNEY(COULD I SOUND MORE CHEEZZY)
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Posted by necronomincon
on 2008-01-23 09:40:20
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