Alright so not only is this my first blog attempt but it's also while I'm at work, lol, so it's going to be short. Well I'm 22, and married to the love of my life, I'm kind of in school kind of not, and working full time to help support us. Right now I don;t want to jsut delve into all that is my life but some highlights would be I'm going to join the Air Force, not sure when however, but I do I will be. Could be when I graduate, could be sooner, and with the reality of us trying to get pregnant setting in it seems more sooner than later. When I say reality of us trying I mean it like this, we want a family, a fairly large one, however we don't want to be "trying" until we're stable but we do know it could work right now so we're "trying". My dad was in the military before I was born, started Army and went Air Force when he realized family was more important. I know I want to follow this path however, I don't know at the same time. I've been overweight my whole life and when I was in England I dropped close to 60 pounds and brought myself down to what might be considered healthy, well healthier than what I was. I still ahve some weight to lose and it's been 2 years since England so I've of course gained some back, 2 years since England means I'm back in my home state. I'm not sure what it is. If I have to jsut get into the routine of it again, get over some huge ass hurdle, or figure thigns out but for whatever reason I just can't seem to get my ass up and do what I need to do, however with my wife thinking she's pregnant I may have found that extra umph I was looking for. I know it won;t help us until I'm in but if I can at least get in before the kid pops out then I'll be a happy man. Right now that's the biggest concern and goal of my life. I'm hopefully switching jobs shortly, I'll get more into later but lets jsut say it's going to happen but it's a transfer so it might take awhile, which might actually kill me given the amount of stress at my current position. Outside of work my life is great, we're moving into a one bedroom apartment, another story I'll share later, and ditching the roommate, yet another story. She's finding more and more temp jobs with this new agency and I'm switching jobs. Regardless I'm getting off of a mid-shift, 11pm-8am, and working days, 7am-4pm, and I can't wait. Our whole relationship from dating through marriage has been me on that damned mid-shift. But this is getting longer than I wanted so I'll leave with this, we've been together a total of 11 months, 6 were dating, coming up on 5 married, and it's been a ride, a wild ride, of course like all it has its ups and downs, but I wouldn;t trade anything, I want her for forever, truly and completely. Yeah sounds a little fruity but I don't really care, I love my wife more than I can actually say and I can't wait to see what life has in store for us. To those reading, lets be friends, lol, and have a good one.
HappilyMarriedMan