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| Went to Court Today |
So, I went to court today. My ex quit his job last April and today was his seek work court day. Took the county long enough to do it, but ti's done. I have such a hard time understanding what I was thinking (even if I was only 19 at the time) being with him. He just proved how stupid he is today. Never standing to address the judge, asking questions that had nothing to do with the case at hand today. And he brought his 19 year old GF with him (he's 32). I have no problem with older guys dating younger girls, but he just bugs me. He hasn't seen KJ for 4 1/2 years now and acts like it's no big deal. And he doesn't care that KJ lost he Ins. coverage because he quit his job last April while she was in the hospital under going treatment for Reactive Air issues. The Judge was so not having his excuses and told him to stop talking and listen. He said if he was unemployed or under employed and could not meet his child support requirements, he need to find more then one job to work to live up to his responsibilities. So, facing my ex wasn't as big a deal to me today, because I felt good about myself. I have lost 30+ and wore an outfit that I feel good in. So I was able to walk away with my head held high. They tried to get into how this was unfair and what not, but I just walked away and didn't bother getting into it with him or his GF that has nothing to do with any of this.
The one question I have is how can someone walk away from their child and act like it's no big thing? Then when someone asks him about it, he blames me. I guess I just need to real let go and not let those little things bother me to much. KJ and I are happy and healthy and loving life, and that's really all that matters.
On the diet front, I am doing great. I am unhappy with the near liquid everything, but in the end it will all be worth it. I hope everyone has a great night.
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Posted by HCMovingOn on 2009-10-27 02:19:12 | Rating: | Views: 30
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