true. definitely true. I got married at eighteen because I was pregnant and I loved the guy but in all honesty I knew that we werent meant to be together.
Even now I am with someone that I love very much and we have talked about getting married but it won't be for at least 3 more years. I need to make sure that I am not making a mistake this time.
Plus why would anyone want to be married at eighteen ? you have your whole life ahead of you and you have hardly seen anything yet.

I hope both of you do have the same dream and can work together toward it. I wish you all the best

wow,that's really helpful advice...love is not a reason which is enough for you to get married,the more important thing is holding the same dream and can get along for long time.hmm.......that's why i think my parents's love to each other is not like the so-called love,but it is care between family members,maybe it is more steady than romantic love...

Boy you hit the mark on that one . That is the truth. You have to be friends and have the same goals.

we didn't have the same aims and same hope , but i want marry my girlfriend very much.i am full of passion and ambition,but she is always unhurried whatever she do，which make me angry many time,but she is so calm,never quarrel with me! i think she is not fit to be my Cooperation partner,but as my wife,it will be very good!~

There really is more to it than just thinking that you are in love, you have to really be ready for it and not set things aside until after the marriage. My best friend had several issues with her fiance but decided to not really deal with them until after they were married, well, that bombed. I believe that they love each other but that doesn't seal the deal, if you aren't willing to deal with problems whether you love someone or not that is not healthy.