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Ok, I'm far from being a nymph or what have you...but I've been with my bf for a little over a year now and has the sex EVER died down. And yes, I have been in a couple of long term relationships and I do realize that sex slows down after the first few months usually, but it's also not the most important thing in the world either. HOWEVER...it's also something I enjoy, and though I don't need it every single day, I do think every 3 days or so isn't a bad average. Well, I would be happy if that were the case. We've had sex twice in the past two weeks, but before that, we had not had sex in 2 months. I've flat out told him a few times this week that I want it, and he's never "in the mood". There were a few nights that I didn't bother to say anything because he had been working overtime for reasons I will not get into right now because that alone is more frustrating than a year without sex, anyways, we talked all day today about having sex tonight, we go to bed..and he wants to go to sleep, pushes my arm away from him and tells me it's too late to be doing that and he wants to sleep, yes i agree it is late, however we're not working tomorrow so we can sleep in as long as we like. I'm a very self concious person, I've gained maybe 15 or 20 pounds since i've been with him and I considered myself chubby before then, so this whole thing where he turns me down EVERY FREAKING TIME is really starting to make me feel even worse about myself. Now before anyone starts posting that he's cheating on me and what not, I know for a fact that this is not happening so that's not the reason. The more he pushes me away, the more digusting I feel about myself. He does tell me every day how beautifull I am, but considering my childhood, I can't really believe he means it. I love him to death, but this is freaking rediculous, we're practically just roomates who sleep in the same bed. I'm not one to cheat on anyone, and I'm in no way considering it, but something's got to give...he's either got to tell me whatever the hell it is that's bothering him or do something about it. He told me tonight "maybe tomorrow" and being as annoyed as I was about the situation already the only thing I responded with was "don't count on it", I refuse to make this at his convenience only, and to be honest, he really turned me off and I'm not all that interested in sleeping with him tomorrow and perhaps not the day after either. He teases me basically all night then goes to sleep....how is that fair? He thinks it's hilarious, then he wonders the next morning when I wake up why I'm cranky...HELLO? Are you that slow? ARG!
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Posted by ForgottenOne on 2007-11-29 04:40:51 | Rating: | Views: 126
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men eh?, lil chuckle and smile, they'll learn about us more, one day, wink and warm hug leftt
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Posted by kentlass
on 2007-12-01 09:42:15
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Are you sure he is not cheating on you?
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Posted by BERTHA
on 2007-12-06 03:29:50
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