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Can I Be A Girlfriend?

I guess any girl can be called a girlfriend, but can I acts as one? Am I going to be able express myself to a boyfriend? Am I going to be able to help him in his time of needs?

I can write all I want to, but I can't have a relationship where we just write back and forth the whole time can I? My main problem is that I am kind of shy and have a hard time expressing myself in anyway possible. I could do much better on an internet relationship, but I don't get the comfort of seeing him everyday. In a real life relationship, I get the comfort of seeing him everyday, but lack the communication. I prefer a real life relationship, but I guess I just need a little more practice. I should at least try and express myself to any boyfriend that I have in the future.

Posted by FallenSoul on 2008-11-06 11:40:32 | Rating:

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Well, I know how you feel about that.

It isnt easy toe xpress yourself to anothe rperson, it needs trust. BUt I am sure, you can build up that trust. It just might take a while until you can totally express your feelings and have that communication you can have online also in a real life relationship =)

Posted by SoulComa on 2008-11-06 11:51:01

Improving communication skills takes time and practice, but it is the most vital aspect of a relationship; without communication, the relationship will surely fail.

Many things can effect an intimate relationship, but none as much as communication. Think about how communications affects a relationship, and you will surely find that ALL aspects (positive and negative) are root-sourced in communications.

The good thing is that you realize this liability exists, and have become willing to change it, thats the first step to self-improvement.

Good Luck and Good Communicating.

Posted by Hugh_Pizmehoff on 2008-11-06 14:09:42