Abstinence with dignity and purpose-one of the finest decisions I ever made in my life-no regrets.

In China,Sex before Marraige is turely a common thing now......at least 4 what i see around.

I get where your coming from and respect you for your 'deviant behaviour'. I don't think sex before marriage is wrong, no sex is wrong - for me, it's more the fact that I'd rather hold off from it and share with someone I actually like.

It's a personal choice, don't let yourself feel pressured by your peers. Who's to say they are right anyway?

See I think it depends how you are approaching this
If you are saying that you are saving yourself, you think sex before marriage is wrong, etc. And you are doing this quietly and as a choice that you make, then that is great and I stand up for you.
However, from your post, I wonder if you are not out there flaunting your choice in the same way as a girl that chooses the polar opposite might. Just like they might be hanging on guys, dressing in a less than appropriate way, etc, are you pushing your choice out there, almost being SUPER VIRGIN?
If not then I am wrong
But a sense I get from this blog is that you feel people are shunning you for your choice. Maybe it is not the choice but way you make everyone know about the choice...and I do not mean here, I mean in your real life at college...that they are reacting to.
Again I could be misreading you

i was really for the whole sex after marriage thing for a really long time. And I really wish I waited. The reason I didn't...well...let's not get into that. That's a totally different story.

I'm not sure if I would have waited until marriage...but I know that I would have ended up waiting a little longer. And I was 19 when I lost my virginity.

At the end of the day...it's personal and only that person can really decide. No one can make that decision for you.

I think sex is a very emotional journey. You should share it with someone you care about. waiting until marriage improves your chance of finding somone who cares about you. You be the judge of when the right time is and who is right for you.

influx, that is the perfect way to decide. you are a smart one.